Condoms work well, especially against chlamydia, gonorrhea, and other STDs transmitted primarily through genital fluids. Simply removing the condom as you did does not significantly raise the low risk, and washing after sex probably doesn't help either. In other words, those aspects do not elevate your risk. Presumably you have had no symptoms (penile discharge, uncomfortable urination) -- that fact is nearly 100% assurance that you didn't get gonorrhea and fair evidence against chlamydia. For further reassurance, you can be tested at any time:  the standard gonorrhea/chlamydia tests are valid any time more than 3-5 days after exposure. The clinic you asked is flatly wrong about 14 days. A test now will be conclusive.

Condoms are less effective against STDs transmitted by skin-to-skin contact, including syphilis. If you don't develop a sore (chancre) of the penis within 2 weeks of exposure, it will be goo evidence against syphilis. But you also should have a blood test; those tests are valid at 6+ weeks after exposure. Also have an HIV test -- risk is virtually zero after a condom protected exposure, but HIV testing is routine for anyone tested for other STDs.

I hope this information has been helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear. Best wishes and stay safe.

HHH, MD

Forum procedures permit two (sometimes 3) follow-up comments and replies with each question. So I suggest we hold off further discussion until you have been to the clinic. I'll be interested to hear what they advise and, eventually, your test results. But I won't have anything more to say until then. OK?

That will hae to conclude this thread. Follow the advice of your clinic. Assuming negative results for HIV and other STDs, which is what you should expect, there is no point in posting the results here. I would just nod (symbolically) and say "Yup, negative, stop worrying."