Dear Sir or madam,

I am a 24 year-old male. I went to a massage parlor in China 18 days ago, and masseur was a 30 years old lady. She did a full body massage for me around one hour without any lubrication, during which, she licked my back with her tongue to tease me. After this, she went outside for 5 minutes and I did not know what happened during this. Then, she came back and did a hand-job for me and I eventually ejaculated on my belly and she cleaned it for me using tissues. Besides this, we did not have any kissing, oral or sex.

(I did NOT know if she had cuts on her hands or even her hands or mouth was bleeding while licking massaging and hand-job for me. Also, I did NOT know if I had cuts on my back or on my penis. What I DID know is that I had few pimples on my back during that period of time)

As well as this, I have noticed a white pimple (maybe epifolliculitis) on my shaft the day after. I am not sure whether it was already there during the massage. However, the white pimple disappeared two days after that.  On top of these, I have bought a rapid HIV home test Kit on 14 days after the massage and it gave me a negative results.

I have mild joint pains around my knees and ankles 15 days after the event, and sometimes I also have mild muscular pain somewhere. I started using heat patches on my joints and I can feel the pain is relieved to some extent. My questions are that:

1. Based on my experience, do I have any chances to be infected by HIV or any possible STDs? Also, Do I have to have another test? (Will you have another test if you are me or you had the same experience as me?)
   
2. Can I have unprotected sex with my girlfriend?
   

Thank you very much for your generous assistance in advance. I am so appreciated for your help and I am looking forward to your response at your earliest convenience.

 Welcome to our forum. I will be glad to comment on your questions. The exposure you describe did not place you at risk for acquisition of HIV or for other STI's.    The sort of contact you describe  ( having your back licked, a massage,or receipt of masturbation)  are not activities which place you at risk  for HIV or other STI's.    Whether or not your partner had cuts, sores on her hands or mouth makes no difference. Similarly the fact that you have  pimples on your back does not put you at risk. ---

Thank you very mush Dr. Edward .

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Correct, there was no risk for STI from the events you describe.  Without any penetration of your penis into the masseuse's vaginal, rectum or mouth, there is no risk for any STI and your possible UTI is not related to these events.  EWH
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