Hi, never had cold sores and had raw sex with this girl from Feb. to Oct. last year. The night after the first time, I got really sick from a cold and food poisoning so I don't know if I experienced initial symptoms. I experienced a bit of urine coming down to my urethra towards the end of Dec. or in the beginning of Jan. On Jan. 13^th I felt a cold so I went to bed early with symptoms like tender lymph nodes underneath my neck. I woke up with the lymph nodes in my groins hurting instead; they were solid and seemed swollen on both sides. There's a burning sensation while urinating, and had to go to the bathroom frequently, (maybe from drinking too much?) Itchiness throughout the body (from anxiety? BUT), especially in the penis, perineum, and anal areas. My penis seemed a bit swollen, and red but not too sure if I misdiagnosed. I drank a lot of alcohol and walked around a lot which really hurt my groin lymph nodes, and the next morning I saw my penis head showing a little bit of weird dry area; my penis shrunk; and some sort of soft but painful lump on the shaft. It could have been underneath the foreskin. After a day or so, the lump disappeared so I couldn't get that checked at local clinic and by a urologist. Everything came back negative except HSV because they didn't test for it. About a week ago, after masturbating I noticed redness underneath one side of penis and it hurt, following that other small areas began hurting. Maybe from trying to observe too much? I see no visible lesions, but small bumps could be normal skin seems like herpes too. What’s my chance?