[Question #1857] Brief possible exposure

42 months ago
Yesterday I found myself receiving a massage from a CSW, feeling confident this would be entirely safe as advertised.

At one brief moment during the experience, it felt as if she was licking the tip of my penis and perhaps even put her lips around the head and a little down the shaft.  I asked her to stop -- she immediately said she had not put her mouth near my penis as that would cost extra and assured me repeatedly there was zero sucking or licking.  She claimed she was a business person and that service would be additional and had to be agreed upon beforehand.

I am married, and thought this would be safe with regard to STI -- but now anxiety has the best of me.

IF she actually did lick some and put her mouth onto the top 1/4 to 1/3 of my penis for one to three seconds (I am not sure why I cannot accept her confirmation this did NOT occur), is there any risk of STI?  She did perform a hand job, which I believe is risk free?

Can i return immediately to normal unprotected relations sexually with my wife?

Thank you
42 months ago
Oh, she claimed the sensation I was feeling was lube in her hand while beginning to perform the hand job portion of the massage.
H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
42 months ago
You were warned in your previous thread about repeated anxiety driven questions, which are not permitted. And we do not speculate about risks from exposures that did not occur. From the answers to your several previous questions, you should understand that even if the exposure you are worried about had occurred, there would be no significant risk of any infection. And of course hand jobs are risk free. You can safely continue unprotected sex with your wife.

Clearly you have a psychological issue around your sexuality and sexual decisions you regret. Counseling would make sense. I'm going to let this thread stand, but without any further discussion. Next time, the policy will be enforced. Here again is the policy statement included in your las thread:

Please note the forum does not permit repeated questions on the same topic or exposure. This will have to be your last one; future similar questions will be deleted without reply and without refund of the posting fee. This policy is based on compassion, not criticism, and is designed to reduce temptations to keep paying for questions with obvious answers; because experience shows that continued answers tend to prolong users' anxieties; and because such questions have little educational value for other users, one of the forum's main purposes. I trust you will understand.


HHH, MD

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