I met a woman at a hotel bar, one thing leads to another and we end up in her room. A lot a kissing and touching and eventually we attempted to have sex but were unsuccessful. While on top of her and my penis touching her vagina I had huge feelings of guilt and did not insert. My penis probably touched her vagina (no condom) for no more than 10 seconds with no penetration. 4 days later I feel a pain in my shaft. It was a deep pain like I pulled a muscle or something. Next day  I have a sharp pain in my left thigh, again like a muscle pull. Day 5/6 I notice 4 red spots, slightly itchy on shaft (mind you my penis is often itchy for unknown reasons). The spots never raise or blister just itch time to time. They appear to be more like dry skin and are somewhat shiny.   Now on Day 40 - spots still present looking not much different then they did originally.  Been using gold bond every morning after shower. Since Day 4 I have also been dealing with pain in both legs (thighs, hamstrings, knees, ankles and feet.) The pain seems to be more prevelant in left leg which has been scaring me.  Comes and goes throughout the day. Tested negative (IGG- HSV2) 15 and 28 days after possible exposure and testing again at 42 days. Do you believe this is genital herpes? I've been avoiding sex with my wife and she is starting to wonder why. I feel like I am probably about to ruin life for our family.

I'll still test at Day 42 and again at 9 weeks to be sure. Thank you for your feedback. I feel much better after hearing from you.