[Question #1884] shower blood and full body massage risk escort

71 months ago
hello doctor will get to the questions because of confusion and doubt

i met and escort this will be last time i don't want to experience again , i took a shower with her and had full body massage with oil sort of nuru massage

1) we were showering in the bathroom together rubbing each other she was on periods sort of  .  i got some blood on my belly  my concern is  the shower water was flowing all over my body could the  hiv blood flow from my belly down stream and straight into my penis hole  ?

to be straight forward doctor can hiv blood flow into my penis hole if one was to rub hiv blood on the tip of my penis  something like a handjob ?

2) OR the penis hole (tip) does not allow entrance this way does it have protection and how does it allow protection if it does  ?

3) will the shower water also kill hiv blood ? can hiv survive in normal tap/showering water and why not

3) yes there was blood involved i do not know what lubricants she used can hiv blood survive in lubricants she used if it was mixed with blood if not why  ?

4) i had full body massage no breaks on the skin or penis . can hiv blood penetrate face,my head,legs,arms ? even if my skin was intact ? 



   
i am bit ashamed but it wont happen again do i need testing



 




Edward W. Hook M.D.
71 months ago
Welcome to our forum.  I'll be pleased to provide answers to your questions.  The short version of my response is that the activities you describe did not put you at any risk for HIV or other STIs. there is no reason for fear, no reason for testing, even if your partner did have HIV or other STIs (many people are surprised to learn that most commercial sex workers do not have HIV or other STIs and that even most penetrative sexual activities do not lead to infection.

HIV is transmitted in only two ways- through penetrative sexual contact or injection of infected material deep into tissue.  Contact with infected material trough touching, spillage, or casual contact has never been described as a cause of HIV infection.  Further, HIV is inactivated in water.  With these introductory statements, let me know answer your specific questions:


1.  No, rubbing without sexual intercourse will not transmit HIV.  Blood running down your body in the shower does not put you at risk for HIV.  Blood or other material from your partner could not run down your body in the shower and into your penis to cause infection. 

2.  HIV does not survive in tap water.  The virus breaks apart in water.  You cannot become infected with HIV or other STIs through contact with water which has been contaminated by the virus.

3.  HIV does not survive in lubricant materials and is inactivated by them.  No one has ever been infected by HIV contained in lubricant materials.

4.  HIV does not penetrate intact skin and is not transmitted through rubbing or massage.


There is nothing to worry about here.  All that you describe was no risk activity.  There is no reason for testing or for concern.  EWH




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71 months ago
Dear doctorI can't go to any doctor at the moment because I wish to be secretive 

Im extremely worried I am virgin person actually 

So my specific main question is regarding the 

penis  hole ,where urine comes out and my sperm exits  I think it is called meatus 

I am afraid of two three things all of a sudden actually today .  So I'll ask you  now 

Q1) you have stated without sex blood or fluids cannot go into penis why is that ? 

Q2) I want to know two facts one is if contaiminated towel with blood or body fluids  are on towel  and I rub my penis tip with it can the fluids enter my penis hole ? 

Q3) contaiminated underwear if I wear that immediately and it's infected with blood or body fluids will they enter the penis hole ? The under wear will be in contact with penis hole .

The reason I am afraid and I'm asking is because the penis hole is the entry point and it's an access for infected material to pass through 

Skin on penis does protects but the penis hole is vulnerable . If HIV blood is active and body fluids are also active and air exposure was less .I want to know what defense my penis hole has that it won't allow fluids to pass through without sex and me  rubbing the penis with contaiminated  towel and wearing underwear won't allow HIV to pass through  my penis hole . 

Q4)When you give your reasons , would the same reasons apply for my butt hole ? . That's where  the human waste comes out and it's the hole where People  have anal sex

Please answer and forget about air exposure and explain if HIV can be entered this way 

I had submissive (pvc role ) mild dominatrix hence the question on towel and underwear 

Many thanks 


Edward W. Hook M.D.
71 months ago
Your question is repetitive and has been answered.  To repeat:


Q1) you have stated without sex blood or fluids cannot go into penis why is that ? 
No, material simpley does not enter that way.

Q2) I want to know two facts one is if contaiminated towel with blood or body fluids  are on towel  and I rub my penis tip with it can the fluids enter my penis hole ? 
No, HIV and STIs have never been transmitted on a contaminated towel.  No one has ever been infected this way. The virus would stay stuck to the material of the towel, even if wet.

Q3) contaiminated underwear if I wear that immediately and it's infected with blood or body fluids will they enter the penis hole ? The under wear will be in contact with penis hole .
No, see above.

Q4)When you give your reasons , would the same reasons apply for my butt hole ? . That's where  the human waste comes out and it's the hole where People  have anal sex.
Correct, the answers are the same for the rectum.

If you repeat these questions again, they will not be answered and the thread will be closed.  You are permitted one more clarifying question although explanation of the facts above will not be provided.  No one has EVER caught HIV in the way you suggested. All experts, including the World Helath Organization and U.S. CDC agree on this.  EWH
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71 months ago
Unmmm okayyy . So I was clear with the towel and underwear part 

Blood will simple be stuck that was extremely helpful and no one gets infected this way 

Q1) fluid streaming down the penis hole that can't enter because my penis hole simply won't allow it ? As long as I don't have to sex .   A simple 
Answer would help on this would be really really big help 

Q2)  I got lost with with everything so I'll throw this thought in also . I got my body waxed before this incident skin does protect me . There many many hairs on my legs and arms . So I have no hair because of waxing can infected material such as HIV blood and fluids penetrate my arms and leg skin  skin and go through the hair hole in my arms and legs ? Or the skin is solid and and cannot penetrate the hair holes on my body where the hair grows.  

Thanks and good bye sorry but was worried hence the paranoid question which in 100 percent sure now just needed a little reasoning:(


Edward W. Hook M.D.
71 months ago
Repeating questions does not change the answers.

Q1) fluid streaming down the penis hole that can't enter because my penis hole simply won't allow it ? As long as I don't have to sex .   A simple 
Answer would help on this would be really really big help.
Correct, as I said before.  The urethral meatus and rectum do not allow things into them unless they are pushed there. this is not a passive process.

Q2)  I got lost with with everything so I'll throw this thought in also . I got my body waxed before this incident skin does protect me . There many many hairs on my legs and arms . So I have no hair because of waxing can infected material such as HIV blood and fluids penetrate my arms and leg skin  skin and go through the hair hole in my arms and legs ? Or the skin is solid and and cannot penetrate the hair holes on my body where the hair grows.
Another repetitive question.  As I said in my original response- "HIV does not penetrate intact skin and is not transmitted through rubbing or massage."  This includes skin after waxing.

You need to stop worrying about the events you have described and move on.  If you just remember this part of my first response - "HIV is transmitted in only two ways- through penetrative sexual contact or injection of infected material deep into tissue.  Contact with infected material through touching, spillage, or casual contact has never been described as a cause of HIV infection." then you will have answers to future questions of this sort.

This is my third response to your questions and completes this thread.  The thread will be closed later today.  I hope these answers will help you.  Take care.  EWH.

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71 months ago
I will read you last part forever thank you yes they are helpful