[Question #2232] Worrying about partners symptoms

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87 months ago
I am a 37 year old male with a 39 year old female partner. I have, on occasion, visited with CSWs. Vaginal intercourse has always been protected however I have sometimes received unprotected fellatio. I have never had any symptoms of stuff. My partner, about a year and a half ago, started having more severe period pains. I was tested at that time and was negative. Since then, I have received unprotected oral 2 or 3 times. In Sept or Oct of last year my partner started having heavy bleeding with her periods. She's been to her doctor and had pelvic exams and ultrasounds. They found 2 - 5cm cysts on her ovaries. Since one of the cysts remained after a few months they performed laparoscopy today. The doctor removed her right ovary and tube due to significant adhesions being found. He gave her no antibiotics and told her to follow up in 6 weeks. I am very frightened that the adhesions might be related to PID caused by my being infected by unprotected oral and transmitting to her. I am wondering if you could share your thoughts. Could PID have been missed on ultrasound and pelvic exam? Would PID be so apparent on laparoscopy that antibiotics would be prescribed right away?
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
87 months ago
Welcome to the forum. Thanks for your question.

Problems like your wife's usually are not due to PID or STD. The explanation often isn't known, but ovarian cysts, irregular menstrual bleeding, and so on are quite common. There is no way acute PID would have been missed by either ultrasound or especially laparoscopy, and certianly not by both of them. It is conceivable that her problems are a long-delayed complication of previous STDs, but not likely from you in more recent years. (I have no way to judge her past sexual history, and perhaps you don't either.)

In addition, you have had only protected vaginal sex -- and it is exceedingly unlikely you acquired any STD by receiving oral sex that would not have caused obvious symptoms.

Accordingly, I see little chance your wife's gynecological problems have anything to do with your non-marital sexual events. I really don't think you need worry about it.

I hope this has been helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear. Best wishes to your wife for a speedy recovery.

HHH, MD

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87 months ago
Thank you so much for your response, Dr. Handsfield.

The only quick follow up questions I have are:

1) I can't say for certain that PID was not seen on the laparoscopy as there was only a brief follow up between the doctor and my wife immediately after the surgery yesterday. Not to expect you to read her doctors mind, but Would it be safe to assume if there was no immediate follow up or antibiotics given, that PID was not seen?
2) My main concern was regarding the adhesions, which online information suggests is usually due to infection (or surgery, and she's had a C-section but that is a different location than the adhesions) is this he case? There is a family history of endometriosis but she's never been diagnosed.

I greatly appreciate this valuable service you provide.

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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
87 months ago
1) Yes. If her doctor had suspected an active PID infection, s/he would have prescribed antibiotics for sure.

2) I'm not a gynecologiist and cannot comment on the frequency or cause of pelvic adhesions. But they are quite common. Beyond that, you would have to ask her doctor. But allt things considered, I see no realistic chance that these problems have anything at all to do with the extramarital sexual events you have described.

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87 months ago
Is Chlamydia very unlikely with unprotected oral sex? It is my understanding that it is commonly asymptomatic. In my online "research" I read that in a recent study, 4% of csw in England were found to have chlamydia of the throat. This sounds like a high number.

Thank you so much for your replies.
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
87 months ago
Yes, very unlikely from oral sex. Chlamydia indeed is often asymptomatic, although most infected men develop symptoms, especially urethral discahrge. Also, chlamydia is rarely if ever transmitted by oral sex. It used to be "common knowledge" that chlamydia rarely if ever infected the throat. With newer diagnostic methods, i.e. DNA detection, in the past several years we have learned it's somewhat more common than previously believed. However, 4% of CSWs still is a low number, not a high one, a lot less common than genital infection. And it still appears chlamydia doesn't take well to the oral cavity and when present appears to be in small numbers, perhaps too little to allow easy transmission. Other research has shown no statistical association of receiving oral sex with penile chlamydial infection in men.

If you remain nervous, feel free to be tested. And of course you also are free to discuss the situation with your wife and/or her doctor, and arrange for her to be tested. If her doctor thought chlamydia or other STD was a likely cause of the problems he observed, most likely s/he would have tested your wife for chlamydia anyway, so perhaps that has already beeen done. But all things considered, it remains very unlikely your wife's problems are in any way related to your outside sexual contacts.

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87 months ago
Thanks again. I just have one piece of information that had slipped my mind and wanted to see if it affects my risk assessment. Last January and then again last May I had incidences of testicular swelling. It was localized to my right testicle, painless and not tender to touch though it felt a bit heavy and the testicle was quite a bit bigger than the other one. Both times it went away on its own without treatment within a few days. Could this have been epididymitis from receipt of unprotected oral? I never had any other symptoms. I'm just worried that during this time I might have been infected and transmitted this to my partner.

This is my last question.
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
87 months ago
Epididymitis does not come and go, and is always painful, often excrutiating. (We only half joke that we sometimes can diagnose men with epididymitis cases before even speaking with them, by the way they walk into the exam room.) Anyway, the only known STD causes of epididymitis are gonorrhea and chlamydia, and we know you never had symptoms or testing to suggest you had either of them.

The most common cause of recurrent scrotal lumps or masses is inguinal hernia. I can't think of a reason that the testicle itself would enlarge and then regress in this way.

That concludes the two follow-up comments and replies included with each question, and so concludes this thread. I hope the discussion was helpful. You can move along without further worry.

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