about 8 days ago i had an exposure at a strip club with 2 women who were licking my penis and scrotum, alternating, for about 5-10 minutes.  at one point, one of them began to insert my penis head into her mouth but i stopped her.   there was plenty of oral activity in terms of licking and sucking on my scrotum and shaft, but id there was any insertive oral it lasted 1-2 seconds and was the very top of my penis if at all. 

sorry that should read base of my scrotum not head. 

Welcome to the Forum.  I'll be glad to comment on your risk related to this exposure.  Based on your comments, this was a very low risk event and you have little to worry about.  It is not clear to me, or apparently to you, whether or not one or both of these women actually placed your penis into their mouth.  If they did not, there is virtually no risk for STI at all.   If they did, the risk is still quite low.  Most commercial sex workers do not have STIs, when they do oral STIs are typically far less common than genital infections, and when infectious are present, most exposures do not lead to infection.  Further, the most common STIs acquired from receipt of oral sex are gonorrhea or NGU and these problems would typically be symptomatic by now.  If you wish, a urine test for gonorrhea could be performed at this time and would provide reliable results although, to be honest, your chance of infection is so very low that I personally do not feel it is needed.---

thank you for the reply.  it makes me feel much less anxious. 

4-5 days is early for a syphilis lesions to appear.  When syphilis lesions appear, they quickly (in a day or two) become open sores.  I suspect the changes you describe in the lesion are likely to be due to your manipulation of it.  Alternatively, it may be a local abscess.  It does not sound like syphilis and your exposure was low risk for syphilis.  EWH
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got it -- no, the pimple is definitely not an open. sore. 

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