Since the risk of transmission from an HSV2 female to an uninfected male can't be eliminated, is it possible to "manage" the infection by getting "innoculated" on the calf of a leg or some other less sensitive, easily accessible area of the body and thereby self select the location where outbreaks might occur?

I and my monogamous partner are in our 60's and in good health.  She has had HSV1&2 for 30 years with occasional genital outbreaks.  I have HSV1 and never have had any symptoms.  I understand Valtrex may be a good option to reduce the probability of transmission during unprotected sex to around 4% but I was wondering if and until a vaccine is produced if selecting a site for infection other than the genitals might be a possibility?

My first test about 6 months ago came back positive for HSV1&2...I retested using the Western Blot and came back negative for HSV2...no explanation for the false positive...

Without clinical intervention, I had thought direct contact from an outbreak lesion on my partner to an opening in the skin on my leg might accomplish the transmission...which might not risk an unexpected oral complication...

Just trying to consider all the possibilities...is the Valtrex approach and playing the odds the most common solution?