[Question #2961] Hiv risk
40 months ago
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Hello doctors, i have to ongoing issues id like to see if you can address. I am a 28 year old heterosexual male from Texas. Previously married. Routinely test, tested february. In march i was in the process of my separation from my previous wife and i got received unprotexted oral from some women i know. About 20 days later i woke up one day and i felt a full bladder, i went to pee and peed very little tho next four days were the same, no stinging no discharge just constant urge to pee. Got a urine test they found rleukocytes and moderate bacteria. I proceeded to get a urine culture and they found over 100,000 units of e coli. They did a US of my bladder and prostate and stated it seemed normal. What would cause a uti in an otherwise healthy 28 year old male? I know it is very rare, i spend a lot of time wading in warm water fly fishing and sometimes pee in the water, also the night before it started i had been holding my urine as to not get up from bed...could these be causes?
The next issue is ive been dating my new girlfriend for 5 months. Weve spoken about her previous sex life and although i think she mightve been somewhat promiscous she says that she hadnthad sex for 3 months when she met me and was selective about who she had unprotected sex with. My issue is when we met she was having very strong abdominal pain and passed a blood clot and she figured she was having a miscarriage from her ex boyfriend...my issue is we are having unprotected sex now and have done so about 12 times the problem is the first times i made her bleed. These last times we were having sex and she started menstruating we were in the shower and last night we were a bit drunk and had sex twice, so all in all my penis has come in contact with her blood a few times in vast quantities... i have not developed std symptoms over the week but i am terrified of hiv. I had never had unprotected sex other than with my ex wife. What do you think are my odds of contracting hiv we have been having unprotected sex nonstop id say about 20 times, since she is my serious girlfriend.
To add on i noticed that on both upper quadrants of each buttock i developed red bumps... about 5 inches in diameter circular they look very red and hurt if i scratch them i also have some on my upper back but alot less and on the back of my arms i dont know of they are folliculitis or ars...it wouldve been about 10 th days after exposure, but couldve possibly been there before, since i had already noticed a few breakouts on my arms i have no fever or other symptoms. So i went to a doctor and said it looked very much like folliculitis on each side. I let it go and now 2 days ago i developed a strong nasal congestion, painful cough with phlegm, my tonsils don't hurt, and yesterday in a cold room i was covered in blankets and i spent the whole night drenched in sweat. I dont know if the night sweats are part of my cold or ars or just the fact that i was anxious about it last night. i have not developed a strong fever, or rash on my trunk face arms whatsoever. I am currently at the 16 day mark of first exposure
40 months ago
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
40 months ago
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40 months ago
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
40 months ago
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40 months ago
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
40 months ago
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