[Question #314] Returning one last time I swear

35 months ago
I don't know why I am still nervous that maybe somehow I portrayed my question wrong I just wanted to make sure . I know it cost money but it's so worth the reward to hear it straight from such renowned doctors. I want to make sure one last post I promise . 3 weeks ago I had intercourse with a female I am male. We had PROTECTED sex . But the oral was Inprotected .. I went down on her Cunnillingus , and she went down on me ,gave me head..So that being said . Will you assure me that my last post were the same as this as far as how I sent the post... And this being a risk situation or no. My family depends on me . I will test twelve weeks but I have to survive until then .. Please do not be angry 
H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
35 months ago
This is your second or maybe third "one last time". We cannot provide any further information you haven't heard. We refuse to repeatedly answer the same questions using different words. It is obvious that simply hearing the information again will not have any effect on your ability to "survive until then". In addition to answering individuals' concerns, a main purpose of the forum is to educate other users -- and repeating the same question is a useless waste of time for everyone, including yourself. However, I will add that you don't need to wait 3 months for conclusive HIV testing; the duo test is conclusive any time 4 weeks or more after the last possible exposure. For whatever concerns or fears you still have, I can only advise you to re-read all your other threads, concentrating on every word. And to consider professional counseling. Your concerns are far off the deep end of normal, truly not rational in view of the repeated, reasoned, science-based reassurance you have had. I suggest it from compassion, not criticism.

There will be no further comments or discussion, and future questions about this exposure and your fears of it will be deleted without reply and without refund of the posting fee. It is obvious that every reply simply serves to stimulate more irrational quesitons and worry. Sorry to sound so harsh -- call it tough love, if you like. But that's how it will be.

HHH, MD
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