[Question #3212] My history of HPV
91 months ago
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Dear Doctors,
Here's a brief history of my life with HPV, followed by a few questions.
15 years ago genital warts suddenly popped out, not long after becoming sexually active with my first partner. I went through one session of freezing. I might have been asked to come back for further treatment and / or was given some topical cream but I was so traumatised by the experience I simply buried my head in the sand and anyway the warts seemed completely gone. They haven't recurred since.
A few years later CIN 1 was found and resolved by itself within 6 months.
Five years ago I was diagnosed with high grade dysplasia and HPV was detected. I was successfully treated with LEEP leading to low grade abnormalities while I tested "negative" (undetected) for the virus (over the course of two years). More recently I went for a follow-up Pap and the cells showed as normal.
Now to my questions:
1. I've never really worried about it before but is there a chance that my warts weren't fully treated and led to my first CIN 1 diagnosis? Surely if I still had warts they would have been spotted during the Paps?
2. After I was discharged 3 years ago I had a couple of sexual encounters. This was followed by two years' abstinence. My last Pap 10 months ago was normal but I wasn't tested for HPV. How likely is it that I was reinfected or the virus reactivated since my last HPV test?
3. I have recently started dating a man who is separated from his wife of 15 years. I found the courage to tell him about my past abnormal Pap before we had sex. Was I wrong not to mention the warts episode of 15 years ago? I never thought of disclosing it to anyone before.
4. What are the risks to my partner in general and in relation to oral sex (oropharyngeal cancer) in particular? I am tempted to mention the low but existing risk to him... I wouldn't normally but I'm his first partner since his wife and therefore his first new "exposure" for a long time. I feel guilt at the prospect of him performing oral sex on me. And avoiding it will make the perceived danger more conspicuous…
By the way I am 42 and he is 52.
Best regards,
M
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
91 months ago
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2. After I was discharged 3 years ago I had a couple of sexual encounters. This was followed by two years' abstinence. My last Pap 10 months ago was normal but I wasn't tested for HPV. How likely is it that I was reinfected or the virus reactivated since my last HPV test?
If your tests are negative, it is unlikely that your were infected. HPV would typically be detected at this time.
3. I have recently started dating a man who is separated from his wife of 15 years. I found the courage to tell him about my past abnormal Pap before we had sex. Was I wrong not to mention the warts episode of 15 years ago? I never thought of disclosing it to anyone before.
I'm impressed that you chose to disclose and am pleased to hear that this has apparently not negatively impacted your relationship (all too many people over-react to hearing about HPV, despite its ubiquity and for this reason we typically do not recommend disclosure to sexual partners, except perhaps in the context of a more general discussion of sexual health). I see no need to continue to disclose except as part of a more general sexual health history exchange. Part of this relates to two facts- most persons with HPV do not know that they have it and most people have or have had the infection.
4. What are the risks to my partner in general and in relation to oral sex (oropharyngeal cancer) in particular? I am tempted to mention the low but existing risk to him... I wouldn't normally but I'm his first partner since his wife and therefore his first new "exposure" for a long time. I feel guilt at the prospect of him performing oral sex on me. And avoiding it will make the perceived danger more conspicuous…
You are nice to be concerned for him but you have already disclosed your past HPV infection to him. At this time, my advice would be to leave it be and have a modest concern that if you repeatedly bring the subject of your HPV infection up, you may raise unnecessary concerns. You have already disclosed. At this time, I would simply go on and have your regular sexual health screening and check ups.
91 months ago
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Thank you for the quick response and useful comments.
In relation to question 2, I was asking if there was a chance of a new HPV infection since having had sex after my negative test 3 years ago...
I have two follow-up questions – if I may:
- I understand that my CIN 3 was caused by a high-risk strain of HPV. Is it possible that I acquired both types (low and high risk) around the same time? After I broke up with my first long-term partner of 6 years I had a string of flings (protected sex 99% of the time) over a few years and one regular partner at some point. So I'm curious to know if repeated exposure with the same partners or casual sex caused my infection to high-risk HPV. I suspect there is no way of even venturing a guess...
- In the context of disclosure of STIs, I have just disclosed to my partner by SMS (he is abroad at the moment) that I once had a cold sore two years ago. I know this is not the right section of the forum but I felt bad for not telling him when he asked me if I had anything that was orally transmissible. For my defence I simply forgot about that outbreak (the first ever and hopefully the last). I just feel so handicapped in my dating life. As if HPV wasn't enough I now also have to disclose oral herpes!! It is simply too much of a burden. I haven't heard from my partner... I suspect he is upset and / or angry at me. I do suffer from OCD and these things get to me more than the average person. Should I systematically disclose that one episode of cold sore every time I am about to kiss a new person? What about kissing friends, family member and children?
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
91 months ago
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91 months ago
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91 months ago
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
91 months ago
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91 months ago
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