I am embarrassed to return but obviously anxiety has gotten the best of me. 

This is your 8th question on this site, many of your questions have been repetitive, like this one.  The time has come for some "tough love".  I will provide a brief response to your question above and then close the thread.  Further questions about analingus and non-penetrative sex 9ncluding rubbing and masturbation) will be deleted without a response and without return of your payment.  This is done in order to not further reward and enhance your anxieties about your extramarital, non-penetrative contacts.

Your statements above are correct with a single clarification.  When you state, "Oral sex is no risk", this is a true statement with respect to receipt of oral sex, cunnilingus and analingus, none of which have ever been proven to lead to HIV acquisition.  Performance of oral sex (fellatio) on a HIV infected sex partner is estimated to be very low risk (less than 1 infection acquisition per 10,000 sex acts) but not no risk.  There are no modifiers to these statements with respect to issues of blood at the site of contact, gum or tooth disease, oral sores, etc. 

This ends this thread.  Please heed both my warning above, as well as the warnings Dr. Handsfield has provided to you in the past.  EWH

i will not be returning to the forum as per your warnings about this again. 

thank you.