[Question #3449] Hair on penis after sex

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89 months ago
Hi Drs.

I had following exposure with CSW:
She rubbed my penis with her bare hands for few seconds, then put on a condom on me.
I inserted my penis inside her and had intercourse for less than a minute. During intercourse, I kissed her nipples 3-4 times.
She took off the condom after sex, and it looked intact, the semen seemed to be inside the condom.
I wiped my penis with wipes and left. 
When I reached home 15 minutes later, to my horror, I found 3-4 strands of hair on my penis glans (near the urethra). I sometimes get hair stuck under my foreskin but this was on the urethra and just lying there.  I am really terrified if it's her pubic hair and I had unprotected exposure to her genitals without realizing.
I am planning to go back tomorrow and talk to her. In your opinion, what is my risk for HIV and other STDs from this exposure?
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89 months ago
Drs.,
the condom used was Trojan Bare Skin condoms. Since they are 'thin' condoms, are they more susceptible to breakage? Also, when condoms break, can they just break in the front? 
Thank you so much,

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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
89 months ago
Welcome to the forum. Thanks for your question.

I see no reason for worry. It seems most likely the apparent pubic hairs were your own. I cannot envision a mechanism through which they could get inside a condom after it was placed, and therefore they must have gotten there through hand-genital contact before the condom was placed -- and hand genital contact (including fingering) doesn't transmit STDs. So even if the sex worker says she has HIV or any other transmissible STD (which is unlikely, since at any particular most sex workers are not infected), I would judge this is a a zero risk exposure, or trivial risk at most.

So I don't recommend any testing unless you develop typical STD symtpoms in the next 2-3 weeks (penile discharge, painful urination, penile blisters/sores. Of course you are free to be tested if the anticipated negative results will further reassure you. If you decide to be tested, I would recommend a urine gonorrhea/chlamydia test, which is valid any time more than 4-5 days after exposure, and a syphilis and HIV 4th generation test after 6 weeks. But if somehow I were personally in your situation, I would not be tested.

I hope this information is helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear.

HHH, MD

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89 months ago
Thank you so much, Dr. Handsfield.

Now when I think back, my foreskin was still pulled back when I left and I felt some tugging type of discomfort  while walking towards the car. Maybe the hair got broken and stuck to the residual cum near my urethral opening after the act. Penentration was short lived, with only half of my penis inside  and not rough at all. I thought the exposure was safe(r), but these hairs have caused too much worry. 

Your answer has definitely helped reduce my anxiety. Can you please help with couple of questions:
1. When condoms break, is it a total and obvious failure, or can it just have breakage on a small portion?
2. Do herpes blisters occur at the site of the infection when they first appear ? I understand that subsequent outbreaks can happen anywhere in boxer shorts area. But when someone catches Herpes for the first time, will he see blisters from where the virus entered the skin?

Thanks again.


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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
89 months ago
Thanks for the thanks. I'm glad to have helped.

1. I'm not aware of studies of condom breakage, although I imagine such research has been done. Anyway, commen sense and patient stories in my clinic suggest that almost all condom failures involve wide open rupture that would be hard to miss. (Just thin of any elastic material, under tensions and stretched thin, such as an inflated balloon. When you damage it, you don't jget a just a small defect.) Also, the notion of microscopic leaks that could allow disease transmission also is mostly (If not entirely) an urban myth:  I doubt anyone has ever been infected because of such problems and consider after-sex "water testing" of condoms to be a waste of time.

2. Good question and an important one. The brief answer is yes, you're exactly right. For infection to take, HSV typically must be massaged into the exposed tissues; simple superficial contact with a susceptible tissue is lower risk, perhaps zero in most circumstances. In animals used for lab studies, e.g. guinea pigs, it's difficult to get infection to take unless the skin is actually damaged to the point of redness or even slight bleeding. In patients with herpes, this fits with the common observation that initial herpes lesions usually appear only at the sites of maximum friction during sex:  vaginal or anal opening, or labia minor; the head or shaft of the penis; etc. We rarely see initial herpes outbreaks involving the groin, scrotum, and so on. As you obviously already know, this is quite different for recurrent herpes outbreaks, which can occur in any area served by the same sensory nerves that supplied the initially exposed site(s) -- explaining the "boxer shorts" concept.

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89 months ago
Thank you so much for the detailed explanation, Dr. Handsfield.

I had some minor burn/itch sensation on my left testicle for few minutes couple of days after the encounter. I have been checking my testicles daily, and found a very small whitehead with a red base on the the left side of my scrotum. It turned redder the next day and is still there. It feels hard to touch . It hasn't  converted to blisters, and is still there.
Also, I had a bump on my lower abdomen a day after the encounter. It seemed like it had some pus or blood inside of it, but it was covered with skin, the pus did not come to the surface. I went in to see a doctor the next day, and he said that it looks like a pimple or folliculitis, though I did not see any hair coming out of it. It had already started to recede and doctor said no reason to worry. Now it has broken through an opening in the skin, and some blood came out of it yesterday. It has left a slightly deep wound which hurts when pressed and I can see some scabbing around it.
Do any of these two 'bumps' sound suspicious?

So far I haven't had any pain during urination, etc. I have bought a Chlamydia/Gonnorrhea and Urinalysis test (looks for WBS, etc.)  from an online service and plan to get it done on Saturday (7 days after exposure).

Thank you.


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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
89 months ago
Your doctor obviously was right about a pimple or folliculitis. There is nothing in your description that even hints at an STD or any other infection from the sexual encounter you are concerned about. It all sounds like your anxieties are leading to unnecessarily (and probably counterproductive) self examination. You're finding various nomral things on the skin that otherwise you wouldn't notice or would ignore. Should the tests you planning show anything, it will definitely not be from the events described above. In the event of a positive result, you'll need to start a new investigation to know the cause.

That concludes the two follow-up comments and replies included with each question and so concludes this thread. I hope the discussion has been helfpul. I also hope you'll just drop all this business and not waste your money on the planned STD tests and urinalysis.
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