[Question #3503] HIV - No risk?

36 months ago
Good afternoon.  Visited an escort recently (March 20th)  and had what I believe to be a no risk event based on what you have said in the past.   The escort never took her panties off.  I only took my underwear and pants down to masturbate myself in front of her.  She did NOT touch me while I did this.   I dry humped her with my underwear and pants on against her butt and against her vagina while her panties were on.  I never saw any fluid from her on me.  I did cum through my pants and underwear onto her panties on her butt.  This concerned HER so I think she must be very aware of here status.   She never touched my genitals unless my underwear and pants were on and that was only when I was dry humping her.  I did touch her skin on her back, butt cheeks, legs, and boobs with my hand and then masturbated myself touching my penis with my bare hand or through tissue paper.  She never touched my bare genitals with any part of her body.  I never inserted any part of my body, fingers, penis, etc into her vagina or rectum.   We didn't even kiss. I never even touched her vagina or rectum.   No risk for HIV - right?
Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
36 months ago
Welcome to our Forum and congratulations on your commitment to safe sex.  The activities that you describe were no risk events, not only for HIV but for other STIs as well.  STIs are not spread through material, even if that material is wet with genital secretions.  Part of the reason for this is that STIs much have direct, not indirect contact for transmission to occur.  A second reason is that when the causative agents of HIV and other STIs come into contact with fibers within material, the "stick" to those fibers.  No reason for any concern related to your encounter and no medical need for testing of any sort.,  

EWH
p.s. From the sound of things, it appears that you have a better understanding of HIV/STI transmission than she does.  EWH
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36 months ago

Thanks for your quick reply.   So to focus on the me touching her skin on her back, boobs, butt cheeks and then touching my penis with my bare hand while masturbating:  Didn't appear to be any of her body fluids present but it all gets a little foggy trying to recall (I was sober).  No risk also right?

Again thanks.



Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
36 months ago
Correct, absolutely no risk.  EWH
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36 months ago

Thanks for your time.  I was very intentional with my actions during this episode in an effort to stay safe.  However, the brain can be a terrible thing causing irrational thoughts as you are aware of.

Anyway, thanks for you expert comments.