[Question #3519] Where can I turn?

36 months ago
I know I cant live with this fear due to PTSD any more.  This will be my last post.  On January 5, 18 I had warts frozen off my penis.  Later that night I had a massage girl perform oral sex with a condom and three thrusts of vaginal sex with condom.  (her condom didnt see wrapper)  Two to three weeks latter I fingered a massage girl with a nick.

I had symptoms:
Feb 2 chest rash (doctor said it wasnt ars rash).  I also got a herpy on my lip 5 weeks after first risk.
March 2- thrush (given fluconzole for 2 weeks and sporanox for 7 days)
March 10- cold low grade fever sore throat. (given z pak)

I tested several times most recently being March 27 with alere rapid duo negative.  I did this test because the thrush was almost gone then came back on March 26.   It finally seems to be about gone today.  Last test was 79 days after first risk, 58 after second risk.

I am  scared because I started dating a gal at this same time who has a history of snorting pills.  She has been clean for three years.  She said she hiv  tested a few weeks after her last serious BF.  Her most recent guy was one time she used a condom, and didnt test after.  She has full dentures and says her teeth sometimes bleed if she takes them out for a long time.  She says this is rare and knows when it happens  (me and her decided to be just friends yesterday)

Our dating history:
2/15/18- kissed on lips
2/26/18- open mouth kissed
3/5/18 open mouth kissed
3/19/18- open mouth kissed, fingered her, she licked shaft not head didnt put in mouth
3/26/18- open mouth kissed hand job.

1. Did me kissing a gal with dentures while having thrush and cankers put me at risk for hiv. (if she bled)?
2. Can I sleep with my ex safely?
3. Did her licking the shaft (not the head, and she didnt put penis in mouth) put me at risk?
4. Do I need more testing?

Now my ex wants to get back together, and the thrush has me scared to move forward.


Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
36 months ago
This is your 3rd anxiety-driven question in a month and your 4th in three months.  Your problem is not HIV, STI or HIV risk, it is pathological anxiety which, in my opinion, is a danger to you and your health.  As I told you at the end of our last interchange- "Let me further warn you that should you post further, anxiety-related, repetitive questions, the question may be closed without a response.  This is done as there is little value to you or others from the repetition."  my warning clearly was not heard.  Much of what you mention has been said and comment on by me or Dr. Handsfield before.  There will be a single brief answer to your questions and the thread will be closed without further replies. 

1. Did me kissing a gal with dentures while having thrush and cankers put me at risk for hiv. (if she bled)?
No.

2. Can I sleep with my ex safely?
Yes

3. Did her licking the shaft (not the head, and she didnt put penis in mouth) put me at risk?
No

4. Do I need more testing
No

End of thread.  EWH

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