Welcome to the Forum and thanks for your question.  the exposures that you describe were very, very low risk for any STI and the course of your symptoms is most consistent from irritation (friction) which occurred during your receipt of masturbation (the hand job).  The irritation you noted occurred soon after your encounter, something that is typical for friction related irritation.  Irritation from STIs typically takes several days to occur. 

Thank you for your timely feedback and you Medical advise. I have been continuing to have issues with pain to the glans area still no pain with urination and quite significant pain with boxers rubbing against the glans. I found a spot on the sole of my foot that seems to be painful it is non-blanching, could this single spot be secondary syphilis and can syphilis rash only be 1 lesion ? Also would the secondary rash occur without a noted genital lesion and is this the normal time frame for secondary syphilis ? I do remember walking up steps barefooted and feeling the head of a nail press up into my foot but I had no other symptoms after and no bleeding which may be the reason for the lesion.   The glans rash is still painful and blanchable with palpation almost like a sunburn.

If this is not herpes or syphilis do you have any recommendation on treatment for this rash/ pain to the glans.

 Also Do you allow photos to be uploaded for you to examine ?

Once again thank you for you help!

My sense is that related to the events you described you are now examining yourself far more closely than you ever have in the past.  Many people who do not have syphilis have one or a few lesions on the soles of their feet or on their hands.  It is too early for a secondary syphilis rash to appear on the sole of your feet and if you had a syphilis rash, it would not be a single lesion. 

The irritation you are experiencing on your rash still sounds nothing like an STI. My advice is to stop examining yourself (particularly the glans of your penis (you may be making it worse!), to wear soft underwear and not worry about it.  Application of 1% hydrocortisone cream twice a day for a few days may also make it feel better 

Sorry we do not look at phots on this site.  Past experience has shown that it is not helpful and is often mis-leading. 

I urge you not to worry.  There really is nothing you have said, either about your encounter or about your perceived signs and symptoms which raise concern that you acquired an STI from it.  EWH

Thank you for the advise symptoms seem to persist yet and fluctuate in intensity.  Depending on the day and possible irritation. I do have 1 Final question which I should have asked earlier. In your experience was the urine gonorrhea/chlamydia test 1 week after the possible enough time to get reliable results and should i trust the negative results. I also received the urine culture there was no growth seen. 

As this will be my last question I just want to thank you for your help in this manor. The work you do is truly appreciated by many including me!!

Currently available urine diagnostic tests are more sensitive for detection of gonorrhea and chlamydia than any tests ever available.  They are highly reliable and should be believed.  Test results taken any time more than 3-4 days after exposure are accurate so your 1 week results are reliable.  I urge you to believe these results, stop repeatedly examining yourself and move forward with confidence that you do not have STIs.

As you have acknowledged, with this 3rd response to your questions, this thread will be closed shortly.  Take care and please don't worry.  EWH