I've recently started a new relationship with a partner who is not infected with herpes.  I, however have genital herpes. I was married fo many years and need to review  how it's transmitted  since I'm with a new partner. He know's I  have it  and we haven't had intercourse until he know's all the risks .  Can it be transferred if my partner fingers me even when I have no outbreak or feel anything coming on such as tingling or pain in the groin area, etc..?  What about me giving him oral sex?

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