[Question #418] (HIV -CONCERN)

34 months ago
HI, I PUT MY SELF IN RISK AGAIN, THIS IS THIRD TIME, WHEN I THINK I LEARN HOW TO PROTECT MY SELF, I KNOW I JUST FOOLISH MY SELF
I AM A MARRY MAN, BUT I DID VISIT A TRANSEXUAL SCORT ON NOVEMBER FIRST(NOV1)
ALL WHAT I DID WANT, WAS A BACK MASSAGE AND ORAL SEX, THE TS ON ME(ME RECEIVING) AND WITH CONDOM, AND THATS ALL
BUT EVTHING TURN INTO A NIGHT MARE
FIRST BEFORE I PIT THE CONDOM, SHE TOUCH MY PENNIS WITH HER HAND (TS DID NOT MASTURBATE ME) JUST TOUCH FOR 2 SEG
THEN I PUT CONDOM
AND THEN SHE PERFORM ORAL ON ME, SHE ALSO  LICK MY TESTICLES ETC.
THEN  3MINETS  AFTER WHEN  I WAS ABOUT TO FINISH, SHE PUT HER HAND ON MY BUD, AND GENTLY SHE PUT HER(1) FINGER ON MY ANUS, LIKE TRYING TO MASSAGE, (NEVER PENETRATE, NEVER FINGERING) JUST ABOVE
MY CONCERNS ARE=== AND SOME POINT TS TOUCH HIS PENIS, I SAW PRECUM ON HER PENNIS TIP AND IN THE SHEETS.
I AM AFRAID SHE TRANFER HER PRECUM TO MY PENNIS BEFORE I PUT CONDOM,  AND ALSO SHE TRANFER HER PRECUM IN HER FINGER AT THEN END, WHEN SHE/HE PUT IT ON MY ANUS( I SAW HER TOUCHING HER PENNIS COUPLE TIMES)( I NEVER DID TOUCH HER PENNIS)
10 DAYS AFTER THAT, I HAVE A COLD. THAT LAST 9DAYS , BUT THEN I HAVE ANOTHER COLD A WEEK AFTER AND DIARREA FOR ABOUT 8 DAYS
MY WIFE ALSO GOT SICK 2/3 WEEKS AFTER WE HAVE SEX.(ON THE SAME MONTH FRAME) SHE WAS SICK FOR ABOUT 3 TO 4 DAYS. RIGHT AFTER EAT IN IHOPE
AT NIGHT , SHE HAS VOMITING, DIARREA, AND LOW FEVER, AND WAS SICK ABOUT 2 DAYS,TOOK 4 DAYS TO BECOME BETTER, SHE SAY WAS FOOD POISONING FROM STAKE AT IHOPE.
ALL THIS DRIVE ME CRAZY
WHAT I HAVE DONE
DEC 11, AT 40 OR 41 DAYS AFTER EXPOSURE I HAVE DONE A POOL NAAT, WITH A AB/AG USING(ABBOTT ESAY) AND A INSTI TEST
ALL THIS TEST CAME BACK NEG
ALSO I HAVE A INSITI  RAPID TEST DONE AT 4, 6 ,8 AND 9 WEEKS AFTER EXPOSURE
ALL NEG
WHAT DO YOU THINK DR ABOUT MY EXPOSURE , DO I AM INFFECTED?
ONCE AGAIN EXPOSURE AT NOV1----------------------------BLOODTEST AT DEC11
LAST TEST JANUARY 4 AT 9 WEEKS(INSITI RAPID TEST)

Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
34 months ago

Welcome to the Forum and my apologies for the delayed response.  I thought I had answered your questions earlier.

The exposure that you describe did not put you at any risk for HIV or other STIs.  You do not know if your partner was infected (most transsexuals are not) and even if she was, mutual masturbation and touching, even when genital secretions are transferred from one person to another in the course of the activity, do not lead to infection.  The virus and other bacteria and viruses which cause STIs are very fragile and die upon contact with the air.  There are no cases in which HIV has been transmitted under the circumstances that you describe despite the fact that many, many people have had these sorts of exposures.

In addition, the combination of testing you describe has repeatedly proved that you were not infected.  The combination HIV antigen/antibody test you describe provides definitive results at any time more than 28 days after exposure and the antibody tests (like the INSTI antibody test) provide definitive results at 8 weeks (56 days) following exposure.  Thus you have verified that you were not infected (your other test results serve to support the statement about proving you were not infected)

I suspect that the symptoms you describe reflect one of the sorts of common viral infections that many people (or couples such as you and your wife) get from time to time.

Please be assured you were not infected.  There is no reason for further concern or for further testing.  Again, sorry for the delay in your receipt of this response.  EWH

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34 months ago
Hi dr thanks for your reply
So the oral sex with condom did not put me at risk? Evrn is the condom surface touch my pennis when removing?
And the finger.on my anus even if.precum was present.  Maybe i had cuts around my anus from wiping?
Can i rest with the pool nat
And the duo at 40 days?
Today i am having another insit at 10 weeks 2 days
If.neg
Can i forget about topic?
I am really losing my mind with the idea i coud inffect my wife
Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
34 months ago
Yes you can forget about the exposure you describe and move forward with further worries.  There is no reason to test more related to the events you describe.  EWH---
34 months ago
My 10 weeks insti rapid test came by neg
I suffer withs lots of stress
Does streess cause lower inmune responde to create antibodyes?
This is my last question
Thaks dr for your time
Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
34 months ago

No, stress does not lower your immune system/resistance to infection.  Believe you test results.

This thread will now be closed.  EWH

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