[Question #4249] HPV16
83 months ago
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I was recently diagnosed with Ureaplasma and asked a
question about it separately. Here is my history:
I was sexually abstinent from July 2010 until March 2016. In March 2016, I met my current partner, who is married. Our relationship is monogamous in the regards that I do not and have not had sex with anyone else and he has sex with his wife and me (without her knowledge).
I was screened for all STI’s prior to starting the relationship and everything was negative. I was screened again in April 2017 and May 2018.
Prior to the recent Ureaplasma positive test (3 weeks ago), back in April 2017, I tested positive for HPV 16. Needless to say I was very upset. I had previously been screened for HPV for over 15 years and have never had a positive test result. My doctor told me that most women clear new infections within 2 years. I cleared mine within 6 months. When I told my partner, he said that his doctor told him that all of my negative results didn’t mean anything… that I could harbor the virus for 20 yrs. He believes that the HPV 16 laid dormant for that long and just popped up as an active infection.
When I questioned my doctor about this, she told me that that scenario was “highly unlikely”. She said dormant infections can re-occur in immuno-compromised people and the elderly. I do not fit into either one of those categories. She also said that fact that I cleared the infection so quickly characterized it as an initial infection instead of a re-occurrence of an old infection as those require more invasive treatments to get rid of. She also told me that monogamous couples cannot pass new HPV infections back and forth. My partner has been married for over twenty years. She advised me to question whether or not the relationship was as monogamous as I described above.
Should I have been more concerned about fidelity? Was I careless to believe I had a 20 yr old infection vs. a recently acquired one?
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
83 months ago
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