[Question #4872] Scared and confused
79 months ago
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Dr Drs. I've searched and searched the Internet for an exact situation that I've put myself into but have had zero luck. I suppose it's very offputting or gross but I must be honest. My wife and I decide to try the whole "cuckold" scene with a guy she met at her old job. Long story short he had unprotected sex with her, about 20 min later I followed him without her cleaning out until I finished as well. Shew... now that that's out of the way I'm not dumim sure 100% that was very high risk as we did not know his status. So we tested as follows
A 2&3 week or a quick baseline test neg
5 week 4th Gen neg
She had a 9 week comb4th gen negative
I had a 5 month negative oraquick neg
I had a 6 month 4th Gen neg
My question is
1. Can I call my results conclusive even with the high risk?
2.Would me having Hep C effect my test results like delay my seroconverting?
3. Would me taking anxiety med OR melatonin effect my test results?
I've read so much online saying wait 6 months or a year to test if you have Hep c already and I was OK with my results at 6 months until seeing this. I'm freaked out and hope it's not to late to have learned my lesson. Thanks guys
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
79 months ago
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Welcome to the forum and thanks for your confidence in our advice. Before I answer your specific questions let me advise you to stay away from the Internet for questions such as these in the future. Much of the so-called information there is either out of date, taken out of context, or just plain wrong. As a result it is often incorrect and misleading. In answer to your specific questions:
1. Test results for both you and your wife are conclusive. Testing with combination HIV antigen/antibody tests is conclusive at any time more than six weeks after an exposure. There is no need for additional testing.
2. If you have hepatitis C it will have no effect on the reliability of your test results or if you had acquired HIV (you did not) the timing of seroconversion.
3. No, neither anxiety medications nor melatonin would have any affect on the reliability of your test results.
I hope that this information is helpful to you. Take care. EWH
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79 months ago
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I forgot to ad the main freaking reason I called our risk so high. After he "the other gentleman finished "came" and I had sex with her. I felt a sting we came to figure out that I had some friction burns tears from an earlier encounter my wife and I had earlier that week. "We deal with this some" her and I both. Anyways after I washed and whipped it off the sting went away.. What I'm obviously getting at is I obviously had some open sores while in his ejaculate!!!
Also what really brought this all on is I got what I feel is a rash on my belly and chest kinda look like little flea bites maybe if I had to describe. My temp is at the moment 99.6.. and I feel like my gland in right side of throat is a bit swollen. Keep in mind we didn't have another sexual encounter outside of our marriage since July. I swear I had this last 4th Gen and within a day of results I developed these symptoms. Heck it's January now.
I'll finish this up with the question of why people say if you have hep c you should wait 6 months to a year? Seems like a long time but I'm no expert you are sir. I just want to be sure if I should test in say another few months or 6 months that I do and I get this right so I don't infect my wife or anything. I know you've heard it all but I greatly appreciate you taking your time out to listen to my crappie and respond.
Can I ask one other thing before I go and please not offend you? Is this truly Dr Hook responding or do you all have others that help handle the traffic you receive? Thank you so much for your time and your kind words.
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
79 months ago
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While I cannot explain why you experienced the stinging you describe, I can assure you that your test results are reliable and that you did not acquire HIV from the exposure you described. Your test results are reliable. Your current symptoms are not due to the encounter that you have described. As you suggest, they may be related to A coincidental viral infection of the sort that most people get during the winter time.
I have no explanation for why people sometimes provide overly conservative time windows for test results. It may be that they are out of date or alternatively, that they are afraid of being wrong. On this site our responses are science-based using the most current scientific information that we have access to. We stand behind them.
And yes I am really Dr. Hook' and Dr. Handsfield is really Dr. Handsfield. No substitutes. Take care. EWH
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78 months ago
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Dear Dr for my 3rd a final post I have another scenario I've thought about and I hope I'm not aggravating you with this. If so I'm truly sorry from the bottom of my heart. I have no body else to chat with because all friends and family have kinda turned the cheek as I am diagnosed with severe hypochondria. With that out of the way...
I can't get pasthe these "symptoms" I'm having. Just awful odd to me. I forgot that ruffly 4-5 weeks ago my best friend and I work together and had busted both our knuckles and they came in contact with each other at work. We were pulling wire and our hands came in contact. I remember distinctly because he said "well if you have it so do I now" in a jokingly matter. I've drove him nuts at work over my fear. My problem with him is as even my best friend in the world he's a lady's man and sleeps around alot!!!!!! How risky would our skinned knuckles with some dried blood smears be between us? I have no clue of his status and he said he's not worried and refuses to test I'm worried the 4th Gen test I took this past Saturday wouldn't have picked up the infection from him seems it may have only been 4-5 weeks.......
Again sir I'm sorry for the rambles and asking so much of you but if you could shed some light on this I'd be forever grateful.
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
78 months ago
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Clearly you are dealing with a phobia. As such I worry that it will interfere with your activities of daily life and suggest that you seek professional counseling to help you. Having said that I can also assure you that the sort of contact you have just described did not put you at risk for HIV in the unlikely event that your friend has the infection. Further, had he been infected, since the event had taken place more than four weeks ago there is a greater than 99% chance that your testing would have detected it. You should be confident that you did not acquire HIV from the event you described.
As this is my third response, this will complete this thread. Before I close I should also warn you that repetitive, anxiety-driven questions may be deleted without comment. It will be far more helpful to you to seek counseling than to return to the site with questions like this. I say this out of concern, nothing more. Take care. EWH
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