[Question #5228] Massage with Mutual Masturbation
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76 months ago
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Hi, I had a massage a couple of days ago that resulted in both of us masturbating each other's penises, and the masseur definitely had his pre-ejaculate on his hands as he stroked my penis. I've read enough of these questions to see that hand-genital-genital contact is considered safe, but I've seen conflicting responses regarding the pre-ejaculate/semen coming in contact with the urethra and anus. So three things concern me:
1. His pre-ejaculate contacting the tip of my penis/urethra.
2. His pre-ejaculate contacting an abrasion on my scrotum (I shaved my scrotum 3 days beforehand, and I nicked myself in a couple of places. No open wound but a couple of small healing wounds).
3. His pre-ejactulate contacting my anus (he pressed hard on my hole and very slightly penetrated it a bit once)
Do any of these 3 activities warrant concern for any STDs/STIs? I'm not concerned with HIV, but I'm concerned about other STDs/STIs.
Thank you!
1. His pre-ejaculate contacting the tip of my penis/urethra.
2. His pre-ejaculate contacting an abrasion on my scrotum (I shaved my scrotum 3 days beforehand, and I nicked myself in a couple of places. No open wound but a couple of small healing wounds).
3. His pre-ejactulate contacting my anus (he pressed hard on my hole and very slightly penetrated it a bit once)
Do any of these 3 activities warrant concern for any STDs/STIs? I'm not concerned with HIV, but I'm concerned about other STDs/STIs.
Thank you!
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
76 months ago
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Welcome to the Forum. As you point out, mutual masturbation is safe sex. this is the case even when partners get each others ejaculate or pre-ejaculate on each other, including on the urethral meatus and anus. Even if your partner was HIV infected and, statistically he is not, this was a no risk event for HIV as wll as for other STIs. I would not worry and see no medical need for testing related to the event that you describe. Thus in answer to your questions:
1. No risk
2. No risk, even if the nicks were only a few hors old, still no risk.
3. No risk. STIs are not transmitted by the transfer of genital secretions on from person to person on the hands.
I hope these comments are helpful. EWH
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