[Question #5426] lymp node question
21 months ago
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My apologies if this is duplicate, computer reset. Brief update on my question last year. In summation, a specialist agreed with you guys and your answers where helpful. Good news, no STI. Bad news, elusive none consequential issue.
My current embarrassing situation is I acted on a desire to be a bottom. Chose a guy that had been tested for HIV, Gonn, Clymida in past and was negative. Only one partner since tests. Used condom. Events area as follows (a) performed bare oral on him and used condom for 5 min. of penetrative anal sex. (b) 24 hours later felt a slight stinging after I urination, even though he did not touch my penis. Also when sitting down my groin was sore on one side. (c) 48 hrs later no problems urinating but one lymp node in the groin sore to the touch (d) fast forward to day four post exposure, no problems with urination, no fever, no soreness in anal region but very sore lymp node remains. My questions
1. Does this sound like I might have gotten herpes from this event? I assume one lymp node with no other symptoms would be unusual?
2. I assume an STI he might have would not show up as one lymp node within 24 hours either?
3. Is it possible due to my chronic but unknown prostate issue that the sex may have massaged the prostate and released infection, although I have no other symptoms
4. Any other ideas?
My plan is to keep watch on myself, see if he will test for HSV 2 (I have had HSV 1 for years and told him that) and see if the lymp nodes will go down. No doc can see me anyway until the end of the week .
thank you!
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
21 months ago
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20 months ago
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
20 months ago
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20 months ago
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Thank you for the detailed information. I am worried about using my last response in case this turns out to be herpes. So here are the events and what is happening now.
Ingrional lympnode tinderness within 48 hours of the event, closer to 30. This continued and only got more tinder (I was not checking, heading your advice). No other symptoms.
Day 5, ingrunial tinderness continues but I developed a fever of 101 and 100.00, depending on when I take it. Head ache and generally feels like I have the flu.
Day 6 ingrunial tinderness continues but is much lessor and fever is still present. Same flue like symptoms. Some tingling on my lip but no soreness and it may be my imagination. I have HSV 1 and it doesn't feel anything like HSV 1. No tingling and no strange symptoms in the anal area.
So my questions:
1. While my risk is real and flu symptoms concerning, as I re-read your email post about symptoms and timing giving the best picture, it would seem that this is some other viral issue given all of the flu/node symptoms started and it has been almost 6 days post the node symptoms with no outbreak and 24 hours since the high fever with no outbreak. Would that be your experience or am I just wishful thinking? I have had a flu shot for what it is worth.
2. I am comforted knowing that anal herpes doesn't shed at the penis. However, Terri Warren in perivious post did not come out that strong can you elaborate on that?
3. how frequent would oral HSV 2 shed? I have had oral HSV 1 forever.
Thank you for your response and work with me on this. I could probably dealt with the ingrional node but the flew like systems have thrown me. I keep waiting for the outbreak but I keep reminding myself this should have already happened. I am debating on going to see my PCP but I am sure they will tell me it is viral and this will not be helpful.
thank you
20 months ago
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
20 months ago
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20 months ago
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20 months ago
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
20 months ago
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