I have had hsv2 for 13 years with only initial outbreak and maybe two others. I have never had any bumps or open ulcers or lesions the entire time except for the initial outbreak. Which was an very small lesion inside the vaginal opening on the wall. I have been taking valtrex 500mg for 13yrs everyday and sometimes 1000mg. Recently I  have a some unexpected oral encouters.  I asked my doctor what the possibility of transmission to the other person sine it was once ans not long. I am aware there is always risk even after 13years. My doctor advised yes there is risk even the one time but with taking the meds daily this long it cuts it by less than half and me not ever have the usual bumps or lesions or any ulcers also cuts the risk. I'm at a lost and scared I my have given this to someone. Is the info the doctor advised correct and is going horse or possible sore throat a sign they could have it? Its been 10-12days since. Person already had coldlike stuffiness before the encounter. The horseness got better but seems to have come back .

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Yes that is correct. Someone gave me oral about 10-12days ago, i have been so sad and worried i gave it to them because they said their voice started to go horse 2 days after but no fever or anything but seem to get better within a few days ago but I  still notice a slight hoarseness and sniffles. The encounter was only for a few minutes. They work in extreme heat conditions and also mention they had muscle cramps but they went away should i be concerned about this being a symptom? If no symptoms after 21 days or longer should i be concerned they have it? Also if there was this same encounter with another person more than one but not more than 3 times is that more of a risk and I should be overly concern? Can you have one symptom and have it like a headache maybe three weeks after an encounter like this. Believe me this won't be happening again ever too scared of passing this to someone. I know we can't  be 100% sure without a test but in your medical opinion on all the details what do you think about the situations and the risk? And if you go in to your doctor and the get a usual std screening, what all tests do they usually test for you you dont mention specific tests? And does having a autoimmune disorder increase the risk of transmission from genital to oral transmission?

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Okay thanks i completely understand the frist encounter. The second situation, the autoimmune disorder is sarcoidosis. Besides this he is healthy. Is the risk still very low with the 3 encounters since may? Is a headache maybe 2 or 3 week after a sign he has it?

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Ok thanks. So given all the details the 3 encounters with the same person, is the risk still low? And if no symptoms say in 4 weeks or longer. Is it okay to maybe stop being so concern because i dont want anyone to have to do unnecessary testing and uprooting their lives. Again this is not happening ever again.

Also is do you think there is a chance this could show up aa positive on a blood test/std screening 

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