[Question #5778] Assessment

19 months ago
Hello I’m here just get a risk assessment for something that I did a 4 days ago went to a massage parlor received a massage and a handjob but I never took my boxer briefs off the handjob was done with the boxer briefs on am i at risk for any sorts of STI/HIV?  Reason for the worrying is I’m a married man with 2 small children and don’t ever do this. Reminder my boxer briefs never came off and she remained clothed besides pulling out her breast for a minute. Thanks for the feedback in advance
H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
19 months ago
Welcome to the forum. Thanks for your question.

There was absolutely no chance of catching any STD from this event. The STD bacteria and viruses cannot be transmitted through clothing (even if some moisture soaks through). Even with direct skin contact, e.g. hand-genital contact with vaginal fluid or saliva lubrication, there is no risk. Contact with breasts is risk free as well. And even if you had an STD, it is not possible to transmit STDs to children in the home, in absence of sexual abuse. But there is no chance you caught any STD anyway.

So no risk, no worries. You should not be tested and should continue your normal sexual practices with your wife.

I hope these comments are helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear.

HHH, MD
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19 months ago
Appreciate the immediate response no further questions thank you for the assessment have a great day
H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
19 months ago
Thanks for the thanks. I'm glad to have helped.---