[Question #5826] Chlamydia re-infection, only one partner positive
72 months ago
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My boyfriend and I both tested positive for chlamydia in
October, just a few months after we had started dating. I got treated right
away, but he was between jobs/without insurance, so it took him about 6 weeks
before he was able to get tested & get medication. We’re long distance so
don’t see each other that often, but we did have sex once after I took
medication & before he did (so he was still infected) but we used a condom.
The second time we had sex was after he had taken the medication, but we didn’t
wait the full 7 days we were told to, it was probably on about day 5, and
without a condom. I got tested about two weeks after that and had a negative
chlamydia test.
Fast forward to a couple months ago, I got tested again and
had another positive chlamydia screening. Again, I got treated right away and
told him as soon as I could. He’s now in the military and it took about a week
for him to go to the clinic on base, but turns out his test was negative. He
even went back and got a second test, which was also negative.
My question is, how could this have happened? I know for a fact
that I have only been with him, so there’s no way I would’ve gotten it from
someone else (though of course that’s what his military doctor is telling him).
How could I have gotten re-infected? I do have vibrators, but I did clean them
after my first positive test, would that have re-infected me? And how could he
have not gotten it? Like I said, we’re long distance so it’s not like we see
each other a lot, but hypothetically I could’ve had this for a good six months,
and we usually spend a weekend or two together per month (having unprotected
sex multiple times).
My other concern is, is this going to keep happening? What
can we do to prevent this in the future? I’ve been so constantly worried that I’m
going to keep having positive tests, even though he’s my only partner. I don’t
know how to convince him that I haven’t cheated when that seems like the
obvious answer from his perspective.
I hope this all makes sense – thank you for your help, it’s
been a hellish last couple weeks.
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
72 months ago
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72 months ago
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
72 months ago
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