[Question #6229] Assessing GW diagnosis. Absolutely devastated.
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I found a groin bump about 4 in. above the base of my penis, right at the crease where my groin meets my thigh. I saw a dermatologist. In < 2 seconds she said it was GW. I’m devastated-- I read so many stories, but this wasn't supposed to be part of mine. I began cyro then and there. I used an online dermatologist service for a second opinion, and based on (pre-cyro) photos, they said it’s either seborrhoeic keratosis or GW.
- How often are GW misdiagnosed? It happened so fast and even dismissive: no magnifying glass to closely examine, and wouldn’t even look for nearby warts if I didn’t ask (seems important to me!?).
- I noticed a hair growing out of the bump. Is this even possible with GW? I've had ingrown hairs before, but this looked different..also concerned the online doc didn’t rule out GW despite mentioning this.
- How common is it for a single wart to appear in the area I described? Please share stats here, because online GW info is frustratingly vague.
- I've only had sex with one woman in ~2 years, who’s been vaccinated (not sure if she had the GW-specific ones). Online says GW can show up weeks or years later, but how LIKELY is it that this came from 18 months+ ago? I’d actually feel better knowing that this came from her since I truly did all I could in that case.
- Can I get another in-person opinion after starting cryo? I.e., do warts react in such a distinct manner to cryo that another doc could dx based on current presentation?
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
69 months ago
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69 months ago
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Thanks for replying! I'm 34 and my last partner was 31. To clarify, I'm not asking for a diagnosis, just advice on how to get a more definitive answer after feeling so neglected.
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
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69 months ago
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There's a MASSIVE disconnect between how the medical community views GW vs the rest of society. Despite facts, we're in an age of heightened sensitivity towards consent, so we can’t simply dismiss how it's perceived even if rooted somewhat in ignorance. I know it's not your job to mediate my emotions, but since I must continue to live in a world that still views GW as an abomination, ANYTHING you can share on how to effectively and ethically communicate with others about this would make me feel MUCH better.
- HPV is “unavoidable”, and 80+% of people have it, but isn’t it something like 1% actually has warts? Is it because 1% have a strain that causes warts? To rephrase, is it true that a high percentage of people with an HPV strain that causes warts actually get them, or are many people WITH those strains that have always been asymptomatic? I’d feel much worse if the former and much better with the latter.
- I’m having a hard time seeing how “the talk” right before sex will do anything other than massively kill a mood. Are there any recommendations on how to actually talk to a partner about it?
- To better understand why the recommended disclosure window is ~6 months after symptoms, can you share how risk of transmission drops (from what percent to what percent exactly)?
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
69 months ago
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