I wrote in about 21 months back and received a great answer from you which i appreciate. I will recap and put into context.
I am hetero and have had protected vaginal sex with 7 female partners and an additional 8 bjs protected from females over past several years. I never had a condom break that i am aware of- and i paid attention. Two of the ladies i slept with were swingers.
At Christmas in Dec 2018, my girlfriend (now wife) came down with a bad sore throat, fever for a few days, headache, and sore muscles. A month later she had an HIV test (i believe 4th generation as she had to test for immigration purposes in Canada). Her test was negative a month or so after the initial symptoms.
We then had unprotected sex for about the past year and a half after we got married. I had not had an hiv test. She has to have another immigration mandated hiv test and of course my mind is now racing.
I kindly ask you doctors what are my real chances of being negative and my wife not having had ARS? I know I should have tested for peace of mind but i chickened out.