Checking back to assess current symptoms of potential hsv2. Further risks to consider I did not mention was unprotected oral sex given/received in addition on one unprotected (condom broke) sexual intercourse on March 18, unprotected oral received/given March  24 and March 25, both days with breif protected intercourse. Nothing since. Two weeks ago stared to feel headaches. Last few days have bad headaches, chills, fatigue, sharp short-lasting pains in the arms and hands and legs. I checked my fever a couple of times and didn't have but can't say for sure that's true of all of the last 2 weeks. Now notice bumps near the clitoris. They don't hurt when touched, feel hard when pressure is applied, and resemble bumps elsewhere on the lips. I saw a gynecologist (not my regular one) for assessment/swab. I await the results. She wasn't sure what to make of the bumps and said it didn't stand out to her as herpes ulcerations but obviously she couldn't be sure. I was wondering your take on my symptoms as suggestive of primary heropes outbreak.  My partner has not agreed to western blot but now says he seems to have a potential outbreak on his chin, which could've been him passing it to me genitally and then back to himself orally, if his initial hsv2 diagnosis, assuming accurate, was in his genitals. 

I had pain on my lips and may be able to attribute that to hsv1 oral. Now I am becoming increasingly concerned the flu like symptoms of headaches, short sharp body pains, fatigue, chills, mild sore throat for the last handful of days could be ars. My partner was tested negative March 25 for hiv and claims his last intercourse before me was prior to 4 weeks of us having initial sex (March 19). I don't know what test his clinic in NYC did. I just know now I want to get another hiv test. When is the soonest I can have this done - 4 weeks from the condom breaking March 19) or 4 weeks from the last Time I performed oral sex (March 25)? Thanks.