I was laying face  up and her between my legs as  rubbed her torso including breast’s up n down my front to include my penis. As I got more n more  excited, I am un sure how far down her torso the contact w my penis went. Did she rub her vagina against penis? I am unsure. Either way there was a good 2-5 minutes of this contact

Question: what is my risk for herpes? 

I have been happy with the usual masssge m happy ending hand job n feel totally safe from Sti’s but now this new experience and I’m freaked out

Starting 2 days after Contact ( Friday at 2:30 pm, symptoms started Sunday morning)I have symptoms of some infection, uti sti prostrate.... I tested for uti n nothing then started on anti biotics for prostrate. Now it’s the waiting game. Today is day 4 since contact. Lots of low stomache n pelvic pain and burnging n stinging sensations throughout my penis. Sometimes while looking at it to see for bumps as I squeeze it to turn it it feels like shards of glass in my urethra. The whole area is more red than usual. Scrotum area seems swollen.

So coincidentally I get a prostrate infection 2 days after a new sexual contact? Or is it more probably than not I should expect this burning n such to turn into lesions any day now ?

Or is it all in my head? Which cone full circle to original question

what is the Risk of herpes from this experience?

The risk of herpes from this infection is extremely limited if not zero.  Her rubbing her breasts over your penis is zero risk.  If she rubbed her labia against your penis, that's a different matter, but even that, is very low risk without any penetration.  Your prostate infection has nothing to do with this encounter, whatsoever.  I'm not saying this is all in your head but I do think that you might be over-observing any body sensations that you might be having.  Herpes does not cause stomach or pelvic pain.  You had an experience that is different than the one you normally have had in the past and I think that change is freaking you out a bit. 

Terri

Terri

IF there was genital to genital contact, both syphilis and herpes are possible but HIGHLY unlikely!

Terri

Because genital to genital rubbing just generally doesn't transmit enough virus or transmit virus efficiently enough to the cells it might infect vs. penetration.  And you aren't even certain there was genital to genital contact, correct?  So were you lying down, face-up,  and she was between your legs and you couldn't see if there was genital to genital contact?  I'm wondering why not?

Terri

yes, similar to hand to genital transmission, we don't believe that that is a risk. 

For now, a good idea to move on.  If any abnormal skin lesions come up, obviously have them evaluated, but I'm guessing that they will not.

Terri