I have spoken to dr hook about my exposure. I know my follow up to this is anxiety driven, but I always want another experts opinion which is part of my ocd. Me and my wife both have had hpv in the past. I had a brief exposure  in 2013 of receiving unprotected oral sex for 5 mins and performing unprotected oral sex on a high end female csw for about 6 mins. No other activity took place. After that my wife and I did not have sex for 21 months, 2015. She gets paps ever year and has had at least one abnormal. Well her pap last week was abnormal and now I am thinking I got hpv from 2013 and passed it on in the form of a new infection. 

Welcome back, but we discourage users from seeking alternate opinions from either of us. It's only by chance I'm answering anyway:  if it had been Dr. Hook's turn for your question, he would have been the one to reply (again). Dr. Hook and I have been close colleagues and friends for 35 years and our understanding of STDs and our advice are always pretty much identical. In this case, I briefly scanned your discussion with him and agree with all he said.---

Is something that I should probably stop worrying about since the chances of this happening are so low

Yes indeed. And everybody gets HPV anyway. Assuming you have had at least a few different sex partners in your life, for sure you have been infected with HPV and may still be carrying it. Same for almost all human beings! In any case, the single event you had certainly did not raise the chance you are infected any higher than it already was.---

Thank you, you and dr hook put me a bit more at ease. I gathered from looking at your replies to situations similar to mine and some other research that me getting hpv from having oral performed on me is almost non existent, I know me getting oral hpv from cunningulus is a possibility but is it possible to transfer oral hpv to another female through cunningulus?  Or would I have cleared the infection by then? Also my wife gets a pap every year and the last five have been all normal since we resumed having sex, is it likely that a new infection would cause an abnormal 5 years later?  Or still just a reactavation of her prior infection? I ask because I am the only person she has been with. 

All oral sex -- i.e. both fellatio and cunnilingus -- can transmit HPV, both mouth to genital and vice versa. It's a lot less common than genital to genital transmission, but it happens.---
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