[Question #724] About my problem

53 months ago
Hi Doctors,,

I have a problem I hope you can help me for my own peace of mind.

- In the beginning I want to say I had 7 relationship with escorts, however the first relationship  it was vaginal sex with condom and I do the combo test after 54 days 
and it was non reactive.
- The second  and the third and fourth and fifth it was just oral sex with condom.
- The sixth it was just a hand job with condom.
- The last one is also hand job but without condom and it was yesterday.


my questions are :

1-Do I need to any test ( Especially HIV ) ?
2- Is there any danger from get HIV from hand job without condom even if there a cut or blood or something from her vagina ?
3- What do you recommend ? (  give me your own advise  ) .
4- Do I need to do any test ?
5- Are my relationships are dangerous ? 
6- ( anyone of my relationships can get me affected with HIV or and STD disease  ) ?
 

Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
52 months ago

Welcome to our Forum.  I wil be pleased to answer your questions below.

1-Do I need to any test ( Especially HIV ) ?
No, there is no realistic risk for any of the exposures that you describe.  Condom protected sex is safe sex as long as the condom does not obviously breal and is worn throughout sex. There is no risk from masturbation (giving or receiving).  No risk for any STI, including HIV.
 
2- Is there any danger from get HIV from hand job without condom even if there a cut or blood or something from her vagina ?
No, hand jobs are a form of masturbation.  HIV is not spread by masturbation, even if you get secretions from your partner's vagina on you during masturbation.

3- What do you recommend ? (  give me your own advise  ) .
I urge you not to worry about any of the exposures you describe.  No risk.

4- Do I need to do any test ?
No, there is no need for testing related to any of the exposures you describe.

5- Are my relationships are dangerous ? 
No.

6- ( anyone of my relationships can get me affected with HIV or and STD disease  ) ?
No, there is no danger to you or to others from the sorts of exposures you describe.


I hope these comments are helpful to you.  EWH


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52 months ago
Thank you Doctor Hook for your replay.

Doctor one more question, all my exposures was with condom but the last one without a condom my question is 

if she have a cut her hand it must be there a lot of blood in her hand and I can see it ?
or small cuts like when she using the knife and she cut herself a small cut ?
and my penis also it must don't have any cut correct  

if you please explain it to me 
Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
52 months ago
As I said above, even if cuts or abrasions were present, either on her hand or on your penis, the actions you describe would still be safe. no risk events.  EWH
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52 months ago
Thank you Doctor Hook,, 

it can also transfer if there any blood ?? ,, 

also I want to ask is this correct ( doctors and epidemiologists around the world overwhelmingly agree that HIV is only transmitted by unprotected vaginal or anal penetrative sex, sharing needles or mother to child.  ) and anything don't included this action consider safe and not dangerous ?? 
Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
52 months ago

Yes. even if blood gets on your skin while receiving masturbation.  I think you are worrying more about this than you need to.  Masturbation (giving or receiving), even without a condom is safe sex.

This will be the final reply in this thread.  As per forum guidelines, questions are closed after three replies.  This thread will be closed later today.  EWH

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