[Question #7663] Still worry

1 months ago
Dears Dr 
I am male 42 years 
I make sex with sex workers in Dubai February 2019 I put 2 condom in the same time to have extra protect because I scared 
The girl give oral sex without condom for 1 minute 
And then we make vagina sex for 1 minute I was put to condom  
After 5 months I make hiv antibody test I take the result after one hour was negative because me and my wife we plan to have new child 
And she get pregnant so I start worry again 
I make another antibody test in the same lab after 11 months and result come negative 
My wife got compo hiv test when she giving birth and negative on may 2021 also she make another hiv test combo on jun for her residency and also negative 
But I am still worry 
I never do anything after we married before 5 years 
But I make that mistake in 2019 because I was so drunk 
My question 

Can my wife get pregnant if I am hiv poz and she test negative 2 time 

What my risk 

Every year she have to do hiv test for her residency 
And when she do it I start worry again 
Please advise 
I need more test or that test it enough 

Thanks a lot 

Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
1 months ago

Welcome back to the Forum.  On this occasion, I happened to pick up your question and will be answering.  I did read your earlier interaction with Dr. Handsfield and agree with all that he said.  My answers to your current questions are the same as the answers he provided- you did not acquire HIV from the exposure you described.  You proved this with your testing at five months after the interaction.

Therefore you cannot give HIV to your wife.  You do not need more testing.  Be confident in this.  There is no need for additional testing.  EWH

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1 months ago
Thanks dr 
But I have one question 
If I came to your clinic and tell my story will ask me to do test or it’s safe sex to have condom on and dost fill or break 

Thanks 
Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
1 months ago
This question is repetitive.  If you came to my clinic, I would tell you that you had proven that you did not acquire HIV, that you do not need further testing, and that unprotected sex with your wife would not put her at risk for infection. EWH ---
1 months ago
Thanks dr 
Last question please 
Today my wife get the result all STD including HIV 
Combo test all negative 
We have unprotected sex since my last exposure 2019  so it’s mean ali am also okay negative for all STD , because she is negative for all STD  and also my negative antibody in 2019 

Thanks dr 

Edward W. Hook M.D.
Edward W. Hook M.D.
1 months ago
Your wife’s negative tests for STIS, despite over a year of unprotected sex with her is strong evidence that you are not infected either.  It is time for you to move forward without further concerns.

This completes this thread.  Take care.  EWH 
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1 months ago
Dear dr 
Actually it’s 2 year 
I hope I can avoid my fear 
Thanks a lot dr for kind reply