On 13 June I received oral unprotected sex from a girl I randomly picked up off street for a ride.  It was unprotected oral only no other sexual contact with me finishing on her face/ mouth. Regretfully, on 25 June I made another mistake, I received unprotected oral sex for about 2-3 minutes from an Asian massage lady in which I finished in her mouth no other sexual contact. I freaked out and had a full STI panel done on the 26th which came back all negative including hsv.  Now that I am 21 days post first exposure and 9 days post second exposure I’m freaking out about having contracted hsv1 from these incidents. Every bump on my penis in my mind is a possible start to a herpes lesion. I have no obvious lesions or sores or discharge or pain from urination. But have expirenced crazy frequent urination which I went to urgent care for and UA and Another gon/Chylm year came back clean with no issues found. Urgent care believed my urination was form excess caffeine and my prescribed losartan. Still watching out for sores like crazy, what are my chances I actually contracted hsv from more specifically The most recent event 9 days ago? Wouldn’t I already have had obvious lesions by now 9 days? Please help Married and have already had unprotected sex with wife following the most recent exposure can I continue?

Any help would be great? Literally thinking every red mark or spot is the start to a herpes outbreak...day 10 now and I out of the woods?

By day 10 wouldn’t I already have obvious herpes lesion developed and present? Could they just start at day 10?

Could just be in my head but now on day 11 I think I saw a yellowish tint to my pre cum after arousal   (No sex of any kind occurred) just saw it once and then rest was clear. Could be in my head. NGU 11 days later???? Possible? Please help still waiting for a reply 

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