[Question #8014] High risk exposure
49 months ago
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Hello Doctors,
Thank you for your service and dedication to health and medicine.
I’m a woman and on June 1st I had a risky exposure. I’m normally very careful and rarely sexually active when I’m not in a committed relationship.
The exposure was unprotected vaginal intercourse without internal ejaculation (pull out method) with a self identified heterosexual male, non IV drug user. I realize this was very risky especially because this person is non-monogamous. He shared that he was very confident he did not have any STDs and shared a test result which was negative for chlamydia, gonohrrea, syphillis, and HIV.
I got in touch with my PMD for PEP and her staff gave me conflicting information. Initially, they thought it wasn’t necessary. Finally, she approved PEP but it was too late and she didn’t submit a prior authorization, so it was approved after 72 hours. I didn’t take it as a result.
I have been having symptoms. In less than a week, I had a canker sore in my mouth, a swollen lymph node in the right side of my neck, and general feeling of malaise. I don’t know if I had a fever. I also had an ache in my left groin on and off and that went away in a week.
Most concerning is about a week ago (3 weeks after the exposure) I started to have a rash on my feet. They were small red lesions and they left after a day. Now it’s been a week and it appears to be spreading, mainly on my hands and feet. Now it’s more pale colored. All other symptoms were gone but now I’m feeling a bit unwell again.
It sounds to me like I might have acquired HIV. I’m trying not to panic. I’m abstaining from sex. I’m reading everything I can about it and trying to understand what to prepare for. I’m planning to get tested tomorrow.
My questions are:
- How can I take care of this rash? It’s a bit painful and it’s bothersome.
- How does the rash go away?
- What are the best HIV treatments for women?
- Are injectable ARVs an option?
- How can I take care of myself while I wait for the results of the HIV test in case it’s positive and the virus is attacking my immune system? I’m avoiding alcohol. Should I also avoid exercise and physical exertion? What can I do to prevent further damage?
- How long after beginning treatment does someone start to feel well again?
- Any hope you can share about treatments or potential cures would be great.
Thank you again.
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
49 months ago
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49 months ago
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
49 months ago
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