[Question #8073] Massage and handjop
49 months ago
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Hi Dr i am sorry to ask again about the same thing my old question was : Hi Dr , thank you for helping her by answering the questions, I will start my question, i was in massage centre in UK the lady did massage for me and when she finish she did but oil on my …. And started a hand jop she was sitting in front of me and started to play or massage my pins she was full dressed, no kissing, I didn’t touch any part of her body and she did not kiss or nothing just hand job and i used paper to hold my pins when I did come, this is what happened with me, but after that I started to think and worried what is she did this to someone before me and didn’t wash her hand or what if she used an oil which is not clear or mixed with something I know it’s seems to be crazy it’s just the way I started to think, and I don’t know anything about her she works in massage centre and for sure she is doing this to everyone, what if she had HIV , doctors please I need your opinion out of your experience is this is risk , thank you so much
Dr my question is and will be last time I hope
1- this hand jop and I didn’t touch her body or vegi and no kissing she was full dressed is that is risk of HIV .
2- shall I tell my wife about it because I don’t want to but here in risk but in the same time I know telling her will heart her.
3- what is the worst case scenario that could happen out of this hand jop.
4- what if i hade anything not good on my pins that I don’t know about it because i was scared and I didn’t check my self after I finished?
After all your comments before was enough that is save and I don’t have to worry about it and i have to just forget it its just the way I start to think sometimes i know it sound crazy but i don’t know maybe feeling guilty or i dont know . Thank you so much Dr I stopped looking in internet because there are lots of information which I don’t understand or maybe I misunderstand so i am scared Dr ,
Thanks again thanks alot
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
49 months ago
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Welcome back to the forum, but I'm sorry you found it necessary. I reviewed your recent discussion with Dr. Hook and agree with everything he said. You might do well to go back and re-read that discussion. These questions were directly answered by Dr. Hook, or the answers are obvious from that discussion.
Here is all you need to know about sexual transmission of HIV: If your unprotected penis (no condom) does not enter another person's vagina or rectum (r mouth, but only very rarely) you are not at risk. No matter what you think you have learned or come to believe from the internet or anywhere else, NO OTHER KINDS OF SEX TRANSMIT HIV. And for that reason, you need not worry about such details of how massage centres operate or whether the massage personnel have HIV. Even if infected, the things you describe carry no risk of transmission. For these reasons, our replies to questions like these are very brief. To your numbered statements and questions:
1. No risk of HIV or other STIs.
2. From a disease prevention standpoint, there is no need to mention any of this to your wife.
3. The worst case scenario? If she rubs you too hard, you might get an abrasion of your penis. There are no infection risks.
4. Nobody needs to "check himself" after this kind of exposure.
I am glad to hear you have stopped searching the internet about all this. As Dr. Hook said, anyone can post anything they want on the web, and anxious persons tend to be drawn to information that raises their fears, and to miss the reassuring information that also is present. Please continue to avoid searching the web about these things.
I hope these comments are helpful, especially in making you not so scared. There is nothing to be scared about from the massage events you have described.
HHH, MD
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49 months ago
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Thanks Dr so you advice me just to forget it? And I don’t have to worry about HIV or others STI , the tthink is Dr it was dark and i didn’t see clearly so sometimes I think like what if she but something or she was trying to pass something to me I don’t know it come in my mind sometimes and then I just ignore it, so I can go back to my wife with no worry ?? Dr you know we are not expert and we have lots of wrong information about HIV and there are some Dr they don’t give clear information about it, I mean they give the outline of the information, Dr one last thing what about if I have strange feelings sometimes like I’m not feeling well is this is related to my scared because after this handjop i was watching my self and any change in my health what do you think, and please is this is you the doctor really or its like your assistance because one of my friends told me that it’s not possible for a Dr to have time to reply to all of questions is this is true.
And finally thank you so much for what you are doing for people like me thanks.
49 months ago
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Dr I know that i have to have sex unprotected penis (no condom) enter another person's vagina or rectum (r mouth, but only very rarely) then there is risk but because of low information about Hiv i was scared, no I did not had sex with her and she was dressed and I didn’t even kiss her nothings like that its just what I mentioned before that something in her hand or in the oil or ……. Such crazy thing, thank you so much for helping me thanks
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
49 months ago
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Thanks for the thanks; I'm glad to have helped. Of course I cannot correct the problem of low information about HIV/AIDS in some settings, but you obviously know how to access the internet. You can confirm all I have said with many highly reliable resources, such as those of most countries' or provinces public health agencies, the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (www.cdc.gov), and many, many more.---
49 months ago
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Dr I am not that good on Internet and even my English language is not that good the thing is I trust your advice so I don't have to worry about it because I didn't had sex with her and didn't touch here and no floud frome here Virginia just what I told before Yes? This is my last question please.
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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
49 months ago
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You are asking the same question yet again. Dr. Hook and I have both told you several times that you could not have been infected with HIV. Believe it -- and please stop asking! The answer will not change!---
That completes the two follow-up exchanges included with each question and so ends this thread. Please note that repeated questions on the same topic are not permitted. Please no further questions about this exposure and your concerns about HIV or other STIs. However, I do hope the two discussions have been helpful. Best wishes and stay safe!---
That completes the two follow-up exchanges included with each question and so ends this thread. Please note that repeated questions on the same topic are not permitted. Please no further questions about this exposure and your concerns about HIV or other STIs. However, I do hope the two discussions have been helpful. Best wishes and stay safe!---