I recently had a new sex partner, a 39 year old Italian woman, and Wednesday night I performed cunnilingus on her twice and she performed oral sex on me. We later had protected vaginal sex. Somehow I got her vaginal fluid in my right eye. 

Now Sunday, four days later I developed a sore throat, and swollen lymph nodes in my neck. A friend of mine is an APRN and she noted my throat looks red. 

I also have genital herpes. I had a small break out a couple weeks ago when I stopped my Valtrex. I’m not back on it and have been since the break out. I didn’t notice any lesions when I was w my new partner.  I told her I had HSV-2. She told me she gets cold sores on her lips once in awhile. 

1) could my symptoms be from giving her cunnilingus? 

2) Could I have contracted oral gonorrhea, oral chlamydia? 

3) what are the symptoms in men for oral chlamydia and oral gonorrhea in men?

4) is getting vaginal fluid in my eye a risk factor for HIV or chlamydia or gonorrhea? My eye feels fine. My eye was watery the day after but is fine now. 

5) as of now I’m HIV negative, is this encounter a risk factor for getting HIV?

If I didn’t have the sore throat I probably wouldn’t have written this post. It’s flaring up my concerns. 

1.  Unlikely 

2.  Repetitive.  Unlikely 

3,. Repetitive.  Pharyngeal Gonorrhea and chlamydia are typically asymptomatic 

4.  Highly unlikely 

5.  No

No more questions for at least six months. EWH