Would appreciate your advice and evaluation for this event: I had my first msm experience today with an older male (he's 30, I'm 25). I was the insertive partner and had a condom throughout the entire length of intercourse (I also know from the threads that the risk for the insertive partner, even with an unknown/infected partner has lower risk than the receiver). The condom remained intact all throughout the end, although he rolled it off me after the sex for some mutual masturbation. We also had unprotected oral both ways before the sex (there was lots of saliva involved) and that was pretty much the entire encounter.

I asked him about his HIV status prior to intercourse and he told me that he was negative, although I felt like I didn't have the right to ask how often he got tested or how his sexual habits were. I know the risk for oral is little to virtually no risk based on other threads, but since this is a MSM event, does this change your risk evaluation? What I am worried about:

- I have a small healed cut on my left index finger that I'm worried may have been exposed to any anal secretions.

- I have a white coloured healing wound just next to my molar at the back of my mouth and am worried precum may have found its way into it.

- After the condom was rolled off, I'm worried that any precum or anal secretions may have come in contact with my urethra - this is making me anxious, to be honest.

- I know it's pretty much useless, and when condoms break the break wide open, but the water test I did didn't reveal any leaks or punctures.

May I please know if you would advise me to get PEP or if this event warrants testing?

Many thanks and kinds regards, as always.

Just to clarify, I did not have gum disease but a healing injury on the back of my cheek because I accidentally bit myself a couple of days ago while eating - does it make a difference, risk-wise?

No additional questions after this, thank you.