Thanks again for answering my last question! It's been awhile!

Soooooo I went about my own thing and had another encounter. 

Long Story Short.

Encounter with a male. (April 4th)  Gave protected oral (I know this is essentially risk free, so I'm not even asking about it ) , got a rub down with mutual body touching, back and forth genital grabbing , body grabbing etc. But then he decided to rub his genitals on mine, or at least, I thought so, it went very fast and couldn't tell if his hand was on my first, and was attempting to. Either way, I told him I'm not comfortable with that, but for the sake of the worst case, lets say our genitals touched for a couple seconds. Though, his bottom area seemed to be free of anything suspect.

Last thing I'm concerned with is it's been about a week and I've begun to pee.. a lot. Just kind of came out of no where. So it makes me a bit concerned, but from what I've read I don't see that being a symptom .. Though it could easily be something unrelated, which would be REALLY bad timing. No sores, no major discomfort beyond that empty pee feeling. 

Whats my risk for essentially anything? My biggest concern being herpes. HPV I am vaccinated, and I highly doubt Slyph would be a thing .. is the weird peeing feeling anything to be concerned with? (in regards to HSV, as I know anything else would be outside the scope of this site). I have a partner and while they are aware of my practices I'd rather get back to us having fun. 

Thanks again Docs! 

If your genitals touched briefly, that is NOT a risk for HSV , that was a safe thing to do.  it is also not a risk for any other sexually transmitted infection

Whatever the weird feeling is about, I would bet money, lots of money, that it has nothing to do with a new case of herpes.  Also, urinary frequency is not a symptom of herpes.  In fact, people with new herpes often have difficulty initiating a stream of urine. 

I think you should go back to having fun with your partner!

Terri