Hi doc what a day… my life is  alway upside down. I visit escort today, usual place in Vancouver,Bc. It started with taking shower to french kissing. Than she start to kiss my testicles i ask her let’s do anal we did anal first time condom was okay. I ask her for second round she agree we start it when we finish i pull out i saw black stuff on my condom you know what it is

Also after leaving i santize my hands and ask her to take me to bathroom i wash my hands before going to my car when i enter my car i also sanitize my hands am i at risk for anything doctor why this happened to me im so shame right now

Welcome to our form. I’ll be glad to comment. Condom protected sex is safe sex, even if there is stool on the outside of the condom during sex. This was an essentially no risk event. I encourage you not to be concerned. EWH ---

okay do you know what im talking about thou black stuff ? i mean i saw litrally a shit on my condom sorry for my bad manner. 

I understand that you were exposed to you're partner's stool.  The condom however provided protection.  Anal sex typically involves exposure to stool, whether or not you saw it.  No change in my assessment.  Washing your hands and routine bathing was the right thing to do.  EWH---

i ask my partner for her std check she show me the results it was from online thou not from lifelabs her hiv was negative with Chlamydia Gonorrhea was negative there was no name on test results thou she log in with her email and face id should i be trust her ? im still worried

As you know, we provide up to three responses to each client’s questions.  This is my 3rd response and will complete the thread..  As I’ve already said, this was a very low, if not no risk exposure.  Further, why would your partner lie.  I would accept the results and move on.    If you are still worried, you can easily have your urine tested to prove to yourself that you were not infected with the most common STIs, Gonorrhea and chlamydia.  If you test, I anticipate that your test will be negative.---