I recently posted a question. I have since done  a lot of research on this forum.   I am starting counseling tonight. 

April 21st I had sex with a girl using a condom, it was very brief.  I was scared because the day after I noticed Hpv warts.  I had warts previously and had them froze off.

On 5/8 I had thrush lesion.  Doctor confirmed.

I was tested using the alere rapid duo at  4 weeks, 6 weeks, 8 weeks, 11 weeks and 88 days.  All tests were negative.

I also tested negative using an Insti antibody test for 1/2.  Negative at 76 days post exposure.

I tested negative for hep c 85 days past exposure.

1.Here are my concerns.  I see several responses on the forums pertaining to when hiv2 testing is conclusive. They range between 6-12 weeks .  Please confirm what is true?

2. On July 11 or 12 I had another thrush lesion. This is  81 or 82 days post risk.  My doctor just cleaned it and I left.  Could this possibly be ARS if it was Hiv 1 or Hiv 2? Isn’t it to late for ARS?

3. On Thursday July 14 I had some additional cheek coating / thrush. This is 84 days post risk?  Could this be Ars? Isn’t it to late?

4. Today, (July 18)88 days post risk I had an alere rapid duo.  It was negative.  I know you usually say the test is positive a few days after symptoms. The test was 7 days after the first lesion and 4 days after the coating.  Is this the case even for hiv 2 since it’s found by antibody only?

5 .Does todays test eliminate that the thrush on July 11 or 12 (81 or 82 days post risk) &  the coating July 14 (84 days post risk) being HIV / ARS related?

6.  When are rapid antibody ONLY tests conclusive for BOTH hiv 1 & 2?

7. Is my negative rapid  hep c test at 85 days conclusive?

8. Can I sleep with my partner unprotected?

8. When you receive a finger stick for an hiv, hep c or diabetic test how long does it take to heal?  When is it safe to finger a female?

9. When you keep having medical issues but you test negative what should you do?  This seems like a common problem?

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