[Question #9044] Massage Parlor and Masturbation.

36 months ago

Hi hello doc sorry but I have a question about two scenarios. Please let me know if I’m at risk for any stds from any scenario at all I’ll keep it short and simple

The first one is that when I went to a massage parlor recently the massues got naked in front of me and started rubbing her vagina in front of me masturbating herself. While I watched and masturbated myself as well I’m pretty sure I was at a distance while I watched but I can’t remember and then I came on the towel. The reason for concern here is that I don’t remember if I was close enough to her while I was masturbating but I’m sure I wasn’t and even if I was close enough while she was masturbating and I was masturbating could anything have been transmitted. I don’t remember touching her and she didn’t touch me for all I remember. No handjob or genital contact was made .I’m pretty sure this was non contact the whole time. Am I at risk for any stds including HIV or any of that sort?

Then the 2nd scenario here is I went to another massage parlor and then I ended up cumming in the massueses hand while she was holding a paper towel. She didn’t give me a handjob or anything. I just masturbated while I watched her and as I came My penis might’ve ended up touching her hand for a brief instance and was wondering if I’m at risk for anything here. Any stds including hiv or any of that sort thank you doc I look forward to hearing from you from both scenarios.

H. Hunter Handsfield, MD

36 months ago

Welcome back, but I don't understand why you found it necessary. Here is the main reply to your question 3 weeks ago:

Catching an STI requires a penis inside another person's vagina, rectum, or mouth; or at least direct genital to genital rubbing. Even if your penis was vigorously rubbed against the masseuse's chest or breasts, or if your penile opening were in contact with any part of her skin (including the nipple), there would have been no risk.

Is there something in that you didn't understand? Or didn't believe? Of course you didn't have intercourse or other physical contact that you don't remember? That doesn't happen, assuming you weren't totally tanked on alcohol or very high doses of other drugs. And as indicated by my reply above (and last time), no STI is ever transmitted by contact with a partner's hands. There was zero risk of any STI from the events you describe this time. Do not get tested and if you have a regular partner, you can continue unprotected sex with no risk of transmitting any STI.

Let me know if anything still isn't clear.

HHH, MD

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36 months ago

Thank you doc and sorry for being annoying I just had to make sure and one last reply as per policy. I was only concerned about me being close to her as she was masturbating and I was masturbating as well while watching her rub her vagina in front of me . Does this not pose any risk at all if I was close to her. Thank you as this will be my last question

H. Hunter Handsfield, MD

36 months ago

"Does this not pose any risk at all if I was close to her." Of course not. They call them sexually transmitted infections for good reason: no sex means no risk! And sex means your penis inside someone's vagina, rectum, or mouth. Why is that so hard to understand and accept?---
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I have to wonder if there's a cultural issue here -- how you were raised, attitudes toward sex, etc. If so, it seems you might have picked up some of the wrongest of wrong ideas. Please educate yourself. Good luck---
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36 months ago

Thank you doc I was just concerned about her bodily fluids getting on me as she was masturbating and I don’t think it did but even if it slight did. Would this pose risk of hiv or any other stds. This will be my last time ever asking again.

H. Hunter Handsfield, MD

36 months ago

No risk at all. You could rub her "bodily fluids" (including vaginal fluid) all over your body. You would not catch any infection.

That concludes this thread. If you find yourself worrying further, I suggest you go back and carefully read both this discussion and your previous one. I do hope they have been helpful. Best wishes and stay safe.

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