A friend and I visited a massage club and a sex worker there gave my friend oral sex for a few minutes then gave me oral sex. Really   stupid. Two days later I felt  a cut sensation on the side of my penis.  I looked but could see no wound.  Before the week was out I began having urine issues frequency. Incomplete emptying.  No discharge of any kind just constant urge to pee. The cut sensation seemed to resolve. I checked with my friend and he was fine.  But got all the standard sti tests anyway.  All came back negative.  I read here that non chlamydia nGU can be contracted through oral sex.  But you say it’s not treated because it does not cause complications or infections.   But my symptoms have persisted now for three months and I am getting weak stream and smelly reddish urine.  My question is did I contract something. Either from the girl or worse from my friend?  He claims to be std free but was in her mouth for several minutes before she went down on me.  I read that stis if not treated can get into the prostate and cause long term issues.  I want to avoid that.  Thx doctors. 

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Thx doc. Had numerous urinalysis all negative for ecoli. But urinalysis is supposed to have very poor accuracy.  Some pcr testing showed no white blood cells. Other testing showed 4 wbc. Which some say means infection while others say it’s a normal urine result.  What do you say?  Could I get ecoli from oral sex?  The symptoms came on days after the oral encounter it seems highly suspect.  Also why is non chlamydia nGU not an issue here?  In some posts you say non chlamydia nGU should be treated and others you say it isn’t needed.   How can you be sure I don’t have non chlamydia nGU.  Thanks so much for your time!!’

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