I received an unprotected blowjob from girl.i have the following doubts.

1)what is the risk of HIV from unprotected blowjob?

2) during unprotected blowjob i think i had pimples on my penis, may be pimples on my dick would have broken and blood would have come. So what is risk of hiv from that?

3) hiv from French kiss?

1) Oral sex should be considered safe sex. It isn't entirely free of STD risk, but the chance of all infections is a lot lower than with vaginal or anal sex; and it's entirely safe in regard to HIV. There has never been a scientifically proved case of HIV transmission mouth to penis. CDC has calculated that if the oral partner has HIV, the average risk for an oral sex partner is 1 in 20,000. That's equivalent to receiving BJs by infected partners once daily for 55 years before transmission of the virus might be likely. In addition, the odds any particular sexually active woman in the US has HIV is under one chance in a thousand, so it is very unlikely your partner has it. For those reasons, this was a zero risk event in regard to HIV.

The most important and most likely STD from receiving a BJ is gonorrhea. Be on the lookout for discharge of pus from your penis or painful urination. If these don't happen within a few days, you can safely assume you didn't catch it.

2) The main cause of "pimples" on the penis is genital herpes. Have you been diagnosed with herpes? If so, the main problem with the event described is that you put your partner at high risk for catching oral herpes. Regardless of the cause of the "pimples", the average BJ usually would not broken them or made them bleed. If you didn't see bleeding after the event, you can safely assume it didn't happen. Even if it did, it would not have significantly raised the possibility of catching HIV. (One reason oral sex is low risk for HIV is that the virus usually isn't present in the mouth; and saliva kills HIV.)

3) HIV is not transmitted by kissing, French or otherwise. No risk at all, even if your partner has HIV, which she probably does not.

Bottom lines:  If you continue to have pimples or similar skin problems of the penis, see a provider right away to evaluate for genital herpes. If herpes is confirmed, tell the person who performed the BJ. You also could speak with her about being tested for HIV and perhaps other STDs.

I hope these comments are helpful. Let me know if anything isn't clear.

HHH, MD

Sir, I have some more doubts.

1) If pimples break during normal kissing or French kissing,  do we have to apply same logic as pimples on penis?

2) if I have to test , should I have wait 3 months?

2) From the information you have provided, I don't see a need to be tested for anything. As discussed above, nobody ever has been known to be infected with HIV from having a BJ. You won't be the first. However, if you insist on being tested for HIV, you don't need to wait 3 months. The standard HIV blood test used these days (the AgAb, or "4th generation" test) is conclusive 45 days after exposure, i.e. a little over 6 weeks.

I get nervous by thinking that pimples on my balls is broken during unprotected blowjob and during protected intercourse my balls are exposed to vaginal fluids , if my pimples are broken ,vaginal fluids may enter through that  I may get hiv..

I am.sorry I am very nervous

And as I said, nobody has ever been scientifically proved to have caught HIV from having a BJ -- and of course there must have been billions of such events, including many in which there were pimples, shaving cuts, etc in the genital area -- and still no known infections.

So mellow out and relax. You truly were not at risk for HIV. But as I said above, you can always have a test in a few weeks if you remain uncertain and the negative result will further help reassure you. I do NOT suggest it because you are at risk -- you truly are not -- but because some people are more reassured by negative test results than by professional opinion, no matter how expert. But you truly can believe my reasoned, science based reassurance.

That concludes this thread. I hope I've been successful in calming your fears. Best wishes and stay safe.