[Question #9468] Hiv risk
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32 months ago
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Dear Drs,
I posted here before about some exposures before and i had the answers from you thank you
I had new several exposures all of them was hand job protected oral with csw and massage center in dubai as i know these are free risk right ?
But one of these exposure was vaginal rubbing i will explain what happened exactly the girl put some lotion on her body and vaginal and i was laying on my back then she went on top of me and slide her vaginal with my penis for 3-4 min and i pushed her away and no insert i remember the feeling of her vaginal her when you shave there’s some small hair can tickle I’m freaking out because this happened without condom and I’m so afraid please advise is what happened need to be tested for hiv or. Std ?
I have a wife and I don’t want to come back to her until I’m sure i will not transmitting anything to her please help doctor
I already had a flu after 8 days of this exposure and flu finish in 3-4 days then now i had like only runny nose again only.
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
32 months ago
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Welcome back to the Forum. I think you already know that the experiences you describe were no risk events in terms of risk for HIV or for other STIs. Most commercial sex workers do not have HIV or STIs. Even if one of your partners did, STIs, including HIV are not transmitted by receipt of masturbation or receipt of condom protected oral sex. The body rubbing you describe is called frottage. As long as there was no penetration, even if your partner had HIV or an STI, which is unlikely, there is no risk for infection. Further, I can assure you that if there had been penetration during your frottage, you would know it.
There is no need for concern, no need for testing and no need to avoid unprotected sex with your wife because of the exposures that you describe
I hope this information is helpful. EWH
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32 months ago
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Thank you doctor for your reply but I’m having heavy night sweats without any other symptoms or high temp I’m too much afraid from the night sweats when i wake up i feel my body is cold and i have night sweats on neck,back and chest please advise me what to do
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
32 months ago
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I am confident that your night sweats are not related to any STI which you might have acquired from the encounter you describe. They are quite non-specific and have many potential causes including heartburn. EWH---
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31 months ago
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Thank you doctor for your reply
I have several questions if you may me to have an direct answers on it
1- oral without condom with female for 3 min is it risky for hiv ? Should i test hiv after this ?
2 - oral with gay guy for 3-5 min Philippine he said he’s clean but I’m not sure he’s clean maybe he’s laying to get me only . only oral without condom what happened should i test after ?
After these 2 exposure can i resume sexual life with my wife or should i test first please advise me also to be aware i have 1 year baby child still breast feeding from my wife I don’t want to transmit anything to them please advise me what should i do these 2 exposure should i test for hiv or not please need 100% answer I’m too much anxious.
I know this is my last reply please doctor need the 100% answer
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
31 months ago
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Final responses.
The answer to questions one and two is the same. There are no data on how the duration of exposure affects risk for acquisition of HIV. Logically, the longer the exposure, the higher the risk but exactly how much risk is increased with the longer duration exposures is unknown.
The gender of sexual partners with regard to oral sex makes no difference. There are no known cases of HIV that have been acquired through receiving oral sex. With regard to performing oral sex on an infected partner, the estimated risk of infection is less than one infection for every 10,000 exposures in other words 99.99% of exposures related to performing oral sex do not lead to infection. These estimates are imprecise because infections due to performing oral sex are so rare.
. There is no such thing as a 100% answer. Whether or not you choose to test it’s up to you. Personally I would not be concerned and would not test. Nor would I hesitate to have unprotected sex with your wife. The fact she is nursing is irrelevant. I hope these responses are helpful to you. Time to move on from your concerns. EWH
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