Hi Doctor I found something to come back after my last post about no risk exposure.After my last "no risk" exposure, I don't have any sex except two encounters. One was in 2020 with a girl I met and we have unprotected oral sex and only one time fully protected condom vaginal sex and I am sure I cum inside the condom, no leak, no slip, sperm collected inside, successful covered. If this is no risk event so this one is irrelevant but want to hear your expert opinion about this. The second event is about the condom slip outside. It happened in 19 december 2022, I met a 28 age girl not csw, we did it car driver seat, she gave me protected blow job and continue to protected condom women on top. She wears underpants and she put it in with condom intact, everything protected. In the middle of sex I am little bit can see the condom there because she wears underpants but nothing unsual. Sometimes my penis got lost from her vagina, so she help it to point it back to her vagina. So I told her to make me cum by handjob so she stops and when she withdraws I feel something stuck or something tingling on my penis neck when she withdraws, I don't know what it is. When she comes back to her seat, I see the condom off of my penis and lay down on my pubic near belly, it is fulled with semens fluid, quite a lot like sperm ejaculation. So I ask her, she said she still feels the condom when she touches my penis. I am freak out ! My worry is the condom off outside my penis during intercourse and she put my penis back to her vagina, just my asumption.

Because I need to wait for test, I ask her when her last time having sex, she does not really want to talk about it because her ex memory but she finally told me it was 4 weeks ago with her ex. She said she regularly used condom with her ex, but occasionally no condom. I try to collect information by offering her IV drugs activity and cum inside sex, she refuses greatly like want to stop the relationship with me, she said no to IV drugs and fear of pregnancy. Lastly she accept my fake offer for unprotected sex but cum outside.

I will take her for duo test CMIA next week and she agrees.

I want to marry my girlfriend but afraid of infecting her, she is a negative hiv girl, never have sex yet. 

Please Doctor help me, I need your profesional insight, do you even recommend a test for this kind of one time event?

However, if your partner goes along with testing, why wait 2 weeks? A negative HIV test now -- and negative tests for gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis -- will prove you were not exposed and could not have been infected.

Yes Doctor I only have 4 encounters in my life:

First: one unprotected and one protected with same girl in 2018 and she has tested neg out of 8 months, you have solved it for me

Second: one protected and two unprotected blow job.

Third: recently, one protected blow job and protected with condom found outside.

5. It's already 12 days but I don't have any symptoms, just tonight felt my toe cold because of full day of rain today and little feverish but suddenly disappear when I do something activity. Could it be ARS?

Doctor sorry my question quite long, again I am indeed anxious but I will follow your command, if you tell me to go home out of your clinic and forget it, I will follow your advice 100% and I will not get anymore partner in future like you said "5-6 partners", Not Anymore because not worth it feels anxious. I will marry my girlfriend next year, can I move on safely?

2. My clinic would refuse to prescribe PEP after such events, no matter how strongly you requested it.

3. Yes. To use your own words, all this testing is "TOO MUCH CRAZY".

4.  No new data on this for many years. No risk for HIV.

5. No, ARS doesn't cause such a sympom. You can safely ignore any and all symptoms you might experience in the next few weeks, no matter how typical for ARS they seem to be.

Perhaps it will help you to know that in the 18 years of this and our previous forum on a different website, with thousands of questions from people worried about a possible HIV exposure, nobody has yet reported that they eventually tested positive. If and when it finally happens, it will not be from a risk free event like the ones you have described.

That conclues this thread. Please note the forum does not permit repeated anxiety driven questions on the same topic. This being your fifth -- with all questions almost identical to the others -- it will have to be your last about such exposures or about HIV/STD testing after such events. Repeated questions may be deleted without reply, with no refund of the posting fee. This policy is based on compassion, because we have learned that repeated replies to similar questions tends to prolong anxiety rather than relieving it. In addition, the forum sponsor does not wish to collect fees for questions when the answers are obvious. Finally, such questions have little educational value for other users, one of the forum's main goals. Thank you for your understanding.