A few days after the exposure I started experiencing testicular pain. I went to the urologist and did a few exams but nothing came out. I was then diagnose with prostatitis with a DRE exam and treated with Bactrim, but the treatment didn't do much for my symptoms to be honest. 

Its been almost 10 months and I still dont feel quite well, with this symptoms to date:

- Testicular discomfort

- Penis tingling feeling

- Leg pain

- Occasional rectal pain

- Abdominal pain

- Stomach issues

I know some of this symptoms are not specific to any STI, but Ive read that untreated Clhamydia or Gono could cause some serious complications from pelvic pain to some arthritis and some of this symptoms are very weird like the pain/discomfort on my testicles now spreading to my legs sometimes reaching my knees.

1) Could untreated Clhmamydia or Gono for 10 months be the cause of this?

2) Ive also read that HIV virus sometimes affect the muscles and cause aches, is this possible?

My last tests post exposure were:

6 months: Hepatitis A, B & C, Herpes 1 & 2

7 months: Urine test for Clhamydia and Gono (and some other bacteria)

9 months: HIV Ag/Ab, RPR & FTA-ABS

A few weeks after the encounter a had a sperm test and my WBC results from that test stated: .........../c........3-4 (which I know is a little bit higher than usual.

3) Could this mean something?

All of my complete urine tests turn out normal over this months when I take this test during the day, last 2 tests I took were first void in the morning and I received unusual results in both tests:

- Aspect: turbid

- Mucus: moderate

4) What does this means?

1. These are not symptoms even vaguely suggestive of gonorrhea, chlamydial infection or any other STI

2.  Your HIV test is conclusive.   Recently acquired HIV can cause a flu-like syndrome which includes severe muscle aches but the symptoms last a week or so at most.

3.  I'm not sure what the results of your sperm evaluation showing ": .........../c........3-4 " but it does does not suggest any STI.

4.  The presence of turbidity and mucous in a urinalysis are not suggestive of an STI.  I am not a urologists but I wonder if this might be compatible with continuing prostatitis.

Bottom line- nothing you suggest suggests an STI of any sort.  The symptoms and finding s you report make me wonder about continuing problems with the prostate.  My advice would be, if you have not done so, to return to the urologist who diagnosed your prostatitis (see the one you saw before so he/she does not need to start your evaluation again and has your earlier findings to compare your current state to) for further evaluation.  On some occasions, as I mentioned above, management of prostatitis can be quite challenging.

This is not an STI.  I hope my assessment will help you to eliminate at least one possible concern as you address your problems.  EWH

Most info online talk about the complications of untreated long lasting Clhamydia and Gono, even that some asymtomatic people could have the infection for years before noticing causing all kinds of damage. In this forum Ive read multiple time that this infections are cure by the immune system after a few months.

1) Could you please explain why the different info? Can this STIs really be clear without treatment and how long does it take? My exposure was almost 10 months ago

2) I had symptoms as you describe for recently acquired HIV first few weeks after exposure. Flu like symptoms, diahrrea, even loss around 12 pounds of weight, fever, heavy night sweats. Do you think theres a reason to suspect false negative results from my HIV tests? 

3) To clarify: my sperm test showed higher white blood cells than the usual parameter. It should be "0-2" it was "3-4".  What could this mean? Does this hint anything? It was just 2-3 weeks after exposure

4) Ive try comming back to my urologist a few times but It seems the only answer he gives me is that I should just relax and wait. In case this is indeed something prostate related, why should I ask him to do? What kind of tests? (I know this is not your area so I will understand if you couldnt answer)

5) Any suspect that my RPR test at 9 months could be false negative and this muscle aches are parte of the "great imitator"?

6) After all these test I resume unprotected sex with my regular partner. Soon after this she started presenting with some white cottage like secretions from her vagina, nothing that comes out, but it seems like after sex this secretions stuck to my penis and when I pull out I could see the remaining on my penis. Is very thick and cottage cheese like. She says she doesnt feel anything down there and havent seen that secretion before. Could this be related? She also started having some nausea, diahrrea and mild fever

Apparently you are perceiving a problem that your partner is not and is unaware of.  If she has a problem, or if you think she has a problem, she should be examined.  

I hope these responses are helpful.  EWH

Sorry I didtn quite understand you argument about clearing up infections by itself. Worst case scenario if I was indeed infected with Gono or Clhamydia, should I be sure my body already cleared the infections for me by now? Or this is not something that happens as often.

You suggest my partner get examined if I think something is wrong. I hope you understand this is very fragile and what I wouldnt like to do is disclose that I may have infected her with something out of my indiscretion with another woman. What I would like to know is if you think it could be possible? Regarding what I tell you that shes only experiencing this white cottage like secretion (That appartently are only inside her vagina because its only visible after we have sex because its stuck in my penis). Do you believe this could be an STI I have given her?

How does this tests work?

I did urethral swab 2 months post exposure. How good is this test? Is it better than urine test? I dont know how long I stayed without peeing before the test is this important?

I did Urine test at 7 months. It was first urine in the morning but I gave a whole cup. Should I just give literally the first void? Was it too much and could this dilute the sample? I took a course of Augmentin and Azytromicin like 3 weeks before the test, could this compromise anything?

You asked about clearance- yes it occurs in a relatively small proportion of untreated cases over time.  That however is irrelevant to you since, if you were infected, your tests would have been positive.   If you are thinking that the symptoms you have described are the result of past gonorrhea or chlamydial infection which was cleared before you tested, that is not the case either as the symptoms you report are in no way suggestive of gonorrhea or chlamydia, past or present.  

Your perception of signs of infection in your partner, which apparently she does not appreciate, suggest that you are "looking" too hard for signs of infection.  Regarding your partner and disclosure- there is nothing to disclose- other than your own guilt and anxiety, you have been tested and examined by professionals who feel that there is no indication of an STI or need for additional treatment.  Further, your perception of "cottage cheese" discharge following sex is something that apparently you, but not she feels is abnormal.  If you think there is something on your penis following sex, you should mention it to her and she if she agrees and go from there.  There is no need for disclosure of your indiscretion related to your sensation that something appears on your penis following sex.

The idea that some people who have HIV do not produce antibodies is an internet-based urban myth.  Further, hypothetically, if you were infected and did not produce antibody, the virus would be detected as antigen in the antibody/antigen test and as HIV RNA in the PCR test.  Both tests are negative at times when the results are entirely conclusive.

Bottom line, despite strong evidence from reliable tests AND from evaluation by a trained professional, as well as my assessment of the information you have shared that there is NO evidence that you acquired any STI, including HIV from your indiscretion, you are apparently having trouble accepting this.  You should.  Further testing is not going to change things, I find myself thinking that your guilt and/or perhaps shame over your misstep is causing you to perceive problems that are not there or to attribute lingering symptoms related to your prostatitis to your encounter with the CSW.  If possible I would urge you to discuss your concerns with a trained, confidential professional counselor if you cannot get by your concerns that the symptoms you perceive are the result of something you caught during the encounter you described.  I say this out of concern for you, nothing more.  

This concludes this thread.  I wish you the best.  EWH