I had new exposure with female from Morocco the exposure was kissing touching her body sucking her nipple the i put the condom and she gave me oral for not more than 3 min then i was masturbate her but seems like her vaginal is dry and she handjob me and from my same hand i masturbate her i was rubbing my penis until i come then here is the problem WHEN I FINISH I TOOK THE CONDOM AND IT WAS BROKEN A HOLE IN FROMNT OF MY TIP OF MY PENNIS i got scared idk this exposure is risk for hiv or any other sti please help 

And your next two threads also addressed the absence of risk from hand-genital contact, oral sex with condom, and genital rubbing without penetration -- all zero risk for HIV. And now you also describe a zero risk exposure, which would have been zero risk for HIV even if you had not used a condom. Therefore, the small defect that appeared in your condom was no risk at all, since you did not have vaginal sex. There was no risk of HIV or any other STI from this event. You do not need testing for anything and can safely continue unprotected sex with your wife without fear of infecting her with anything.

We do not permit repeated questions on the same topic, exposure, etc. Although your four threads each followed different exposures, the issues raised were identical. This will have to be your last question along these lines; you may not continue to use the forum for reassurance after every new extramarital sexual event you have. Repeated anxiety driven questions are subject to being deleted without reply and without refund of the posting fee. ASHA is not keen on accepting payment for questions previously asked or with obvious answers; experience shows that answering such questions tends to increase anxiety rather than relieving it; and such questions have limited educational value for other forum users (one of the forum's principal goals). Thank you for your understanding.

HHH, MD

Thank you doctor for you valuable information and the helpful of people like me but doctor this time was different the condom is borked from the penis hole while doing the oral this is make me thinking crazy also doctor as what you mentioned the rubbing encounter i was little drunk idk if it was insert and the lady was from Thailand i keep thinking and my mind getting crazy from anxiety idk if it was an insertion or not it was so fast that time like 2-3 min I couldn’t remember very well and it was no condom and at the same time I’m too afraid like hell  to do the test please help me 

You do not need testing for HIV. However, it is obvious that you are going to continue to worry about this until you are tested with a negative result. It's up to you. Do it or not -- I don't care. However, I have no patience with "afraid like hell to do the test". If you have HIV, you have to know it; and when you get the result, your anxiety will disappear (even if it is positive!). (Worry about the result is always more stressful than knowing, even if the result is the one you don't want.) But anyway, there is no chance you caught HIV from the exposure described. Why are you so worked up? Did you even read my reply above? Or in your previous threads? Did you not understand what I wrote, or just not believe it?

I understand all what you wrote and I believe it but idk why from time to time it comes to my mind again and think over and over about it i think i need to test to rule this rubbing encounter when I’m not sure if there’s an inter or not, not the oral encounter 

There is no need to tell us your negative test result. But I'll make a deal with you:  if it is positive, you will be permitted to post a new question to let us know, in which case we will refund your posting fee. Got it?

Finally, it sounds like your anxiety is seriously affecting your life and happiness. You should seek professional counseling about it. I suggest it from compassion, not criticism.

Good bye and good luck.