[Question #9861] STD Concern

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28 months ago
*3 years ago on a business trip in Cincinnati I received a massage from a local massage/ escort girl that has been working in Cincinnati for the last decade. She came to my hotel room, give me a massage, stayed fully clothe the entire time, and went on her way.
*Recently, I found out from some friends in the area that this particular massage/escort girl is actually transgender. I was unaware when I saw her because she looks female and, as I said, she stayed fully clothed the entire time. I am worried now though.
*Two times during the portion of the massage when I was on my stomach, she tried to stick her finger in my anus. I stopped her and told her that I wasn't interested in that. She apologized and said she "just really wanted to stick her finger in my butt." She then told me to go ahead and turn over on my back so that she wouldn't be tempted to stick her finger in my butt anymore.
*I am worried because what if it wasn't her finger she was trying to stick in my anus? What if it was actually our penis? As I said, she stayed fully clothed the entire time. But during the portion of the massage when she was behind me on the bed and I couldn't fully see her, what if she took her penis out of her pants? And then put her penis back into her pants before I turned over on my back?
*My friends in the area say that she only takes her penis out if the customer specifically requests it, otherwise she does not. But what if with me she made an assumption? Or worse, took a liberty?
*What is the likelihood I got HIV from this situation? Please do not delete this question. I am very very worried.

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H. Hunter Handsfield, MD
28 months ago
From my closing comment to your last question 7 months ago (bold emphasis added):

This will have to be your last such question about exposures that everybody knows are zero risk. Just remember this:  without a penis inside another person's vaginal or rectum, HIV is not transmitted sexually, or with such rare exceptions that they can and should be ignored. This includes any and all other exposures that may enter your mind:  oral sex (which has been discussed in one or more of your previous threads), touching, kissing, fingering, hand-genital contact, or anything else you may think of. From here on out, if you have a sexual exposure that does not include unprotected vaginal or anal sex, we will enforce the clinic policy and delete your question without reply (and without refund of the posting fee). Thanks for your understanding.

There is no possibility you acquired HIV from the events you describe 3 years ago. But if you're worried, feel free to have an HIV test. The result will be negative.

This question will be deleted after you have had time to see this reply. We are reestablishing the block against future questions.

HHH, MD
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