[Question #9910] condom stuck?
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27 months ago
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hello, i went to a discreet sex worker (mature women, looked over 40), towards the end we were in Prone Bone position ( she lied flat on her stomach , simillar to doggystyle kindof), while doing it i started to feel a sensation on my penis shaft from the sides (like they werent covered), it scared me off so i pulled out, im not sure if it is because i pulled off or not but the condom was not on my penis,the condom was stuck on her vagina, it didnt fell it was stuck in its position, it freaked me out, she told me not to worry, if the condom wasnt on she would feel it and the fact that its still stuck means it didnt fell and probably because i pulled out, my questions is
1. is she right? that if i wasnt covered she would have felt it
2. the condom was intact and didnt fell, i spread her bottom and i saw it like its stuck, didnt slip in
3.how risky is this situation?, the women there said i was over reacting and she equally would be worried if she thought it was a risk (i didnt tell her that i pulled out because i felt a sensation from the sides)
can it be that all my penis got out of the condom and i inserted a few seconds while condom was stuck? (im not sure what im asking, im asking could it be i slipped and the condom was still stuck?)..
anyhow the women gave me a few glasses and water told me to relax, im not sure still what to do..
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Edward W. Hook M.D.
27 months ago
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Welcome to our Forum. Thanks for your confidence in our service. I'll be glad to comment. When a condom comes completely off during sex, it typically is pushed deep into the depths of the vagina. On the other hand, when a condom comes off as a person is withdrawing from a partner, the end of the condom remains externally exposed and the condom is easily removed; when this occurs the condom has done its job of protecting the wearer.
In addition, from the sounds of your report, your partner was careful and if, in the unlikely circumstance that she was infected with an STI, most single exposures to infected partners do not lead to infection. Common infections such as gonorrhea or chlamydia are acquired only about 10-20% of the time following a single exposure and infections such as HIV are acquired, on average, substantially less than once in every 1,000 exposures. If I were in your situation, I would not be worried. In answer to your specific questions:
1. is she right? that if i wasnt covered she would have felt it
I have no scientific data on whether or not this is true but I suspect she is correct.
2. the condom was intact and didnt fell, i spread her bottom and i saw it like its stuck, didnt slip in
See above. This indicates that the condom did its job.
3.how risky is this situation?, the women there said i was over reacting and she equally would be worried if she thought it was a risk (i didnt tell her that i pulled out because i felt a sensation from the sides)
See my comments above. This was a very low risk event.
I hope this information is helpful. If I were you, I would not be worried and would not feel the need for testing. If you are worried, testing any time more than 3-5 days following the exposure will provide accurate results for the most common STIs, gonorrhea and chlamydia. EWH
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